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The temptation men face
Eisemann published a simple conversation about power, money, affairs, perfectionism, insensitive men facing temptation (
Downer University of Illinois Press)
But these principles are timeless in 1990.
In this book, he discusses the common temptations men encounter and how to avoid and overcome them.
He also has other recent books on these topics.
Here are some of the famous quotes in Eismann's book: there is nothing wrong with our physical desires;
They are normal and healthy.
However, they must be controlled. . .
Cheap Sex is never cheap.
Those who buy it do so at a great cost, destroying the human personality.
The reality of porn is that it lures people away from real relationships. . .
The longer they pursue stimulating images, the more empty life they will lead, unable to find and enjoy the deep integration of their personality with women in love.
While masturbation won't hurt your body, it will eventually become an obsession that greatly affects how you think about yourself and how you interact with others.
One mistake we can easily make is to think that we are strong in a certain field, and in fact we may not have been tested at all.
The macho man . . .
It is possible to pretend to live with constant erection.
But the reality of our genitals reminds us that we are just hard at times.
We are weak most of the time.
A good cook knows what it does for a hard piece of meat to soak in fine marinades for a long time. . .
A lifetime of immersion in the ocean of God's grace can even turn the hardest sinner into a heavenly delicacy. (2)
Your marriage and internet Dr. Thomas WhitemanD.
Randy Peterson, founder and president and co-author of Life Consulting Services, wrote about your marriage and the Internet (Fleming H.
Riverville, Grand Rapids, Michigan 2002)
Help couples save their marriage from the Internet and all its anti-Temptations
The characteristic of marriage.
The following citations are cited in this book: technology is not corrupt;
People are corrupt.
Technology just makes it easier.
Real life has its drawbacks, but it is better at raising red flags in a relationship.
Porn is sweet and enjoyable, but it can make you sick.
It will also spoil your appetite.
Some people think that pornography is the safest sex. . .
It seems like a harmless pleasure for comedy writers, but it puts many people into a fantasy world that they have never really escaped.
Nowadays, too many people give up lasting love for a moment of excitement. . .
But it shouldn't be like this.
Excitement is not the basic need of human beings; love is.
You can engrave the law in any way you want, but if you are typing in a detailed description of how you want to touch someone other than your spouse. . .
You're cheating.
It may be a clear, obscene temptation to cyber pornography, or a gentle attraction to the heart --to heart chats. . .
It can eat you alive, so you 'd better make sure it's tied with a strong belt.
Addiction is a strange beast, because it is religious in essence. . .
Some even say that the root of addiction is a desire for God. âx80x9d(3)
Pastor and consultant and Duncan jenick wrote: the torn Asunder dave Carder
Recovering from an affair (
Moody's Press, Chicago)
Advise couples whose marriage broke down due to infidelity.
The last thing we quote is this book: what is most needed when one thing is revealed is compassion and understanding, not condemnation.
Sex does not make the relationship good.
It will only make the good better.
If God goes to those-
After the other gods, the spouse has the right to be angry with the infidels (offender)who had gone a-
After another partner. .
You will only be angry with what really matters to you.
Most men and women want more people to be explored than sexual anatomy;
They want emotional intimacy and soul. to-
Understanding of the soul
In marriage, the couple repeatedly went from a large amount of physical affection at the time of the appointment to having sex only after getting married. . .
This is a loss, especially from a female perspective.
The most basic currency of any relationship, especially marriage, is honesty and honesty.
There seems to be an affair in the family.
However, this does not mean that you are absolutely destined to cheat on your spouse and you can break this cycle.
With the help of God, we must break this cycle.
It is clear that external structures do not protect individuals from the temptation of adultery.
The real protection comes from the inside.
Part of the message of anything is that someone else has understood the love language of your spouse.
Forgiveness and reconciliation are always miracles.
Only God can heal!