The second part of the remaining issues I chat online: "How Things Happen "(Nov. 11)
My husband is less impulsive than me.
He loves me but he likes to have sex in a very regular way
Once a weekend, in the dark, the same basic location.
Sometimes he even "forgets" to make sure I'm happy once he reaches his climax.
After eight years, I was ready for everything. . .
Find a secret lover on the Internet
Stay overnight anyway.
My husband is a good man and a good father, so I don't want to divorce, but I want to live a life like this.
Years of hungry life is terrible! Sex-starved!
You love him. he's a good father. he probably loves you. . .
So it's worth working together. Tell him so.
This is important for your marriage, or it won't last no matter what you like.
He doesn't need to have a high sexual impulse to try another position, he doesn't need to choose a different night to change, and he doesn't need to satisfy you first.
But if he wants, there is a way to improve his sexual impulses. . .
You need to be clear that he should try some ways if he wants to live a happy life with you.
He has to go to the doctor and may be introduced to the sex therapist.
Because he only likes to have sex in the dark, it shows that he has a sexual impulse
Ups and these need to be discussed in consultation.
He should be willing to try a drug to treat erectile dysfunction in case he has a potential insecurity about his ability to continue through sex.
You all need to plan some pre-plans.
Sex romance, including more daily feelings, more hugs, intimate chats in bed, reading sex manuals together, using sex toys, etc.
When I found out that my father lived a secret life, I was 40 years old.
His "other" son contacted me and said we should meet.
I rejected my father, who first denied it, then collapsed, and said it happened 30 years ago.
He persisted for a few years and visited the woman and their son until the boy was 8 years old and then ended the matter, realizing that it would change everything if it had happened.
He admitted that he had paid child support before the boy was 18 years old.
I'm disgusted.
I am a father and don't know how you can stop seeing your own children.
I am a husband and don't know how you can betray your wife like this.
If you don't want to marry her any more then just say it and try to consult or divorce.
I don't know if I should contact my half. brother.
It's been two years and I know how to get in touch with him, but I don't know what the benefits are.
I am afraid that if it comes out, it will ruin my mother who is not in good health.
What a devastating discovery of secrets and lies!
You need some comfort and compassion from your own wife and family.
Share this story and your pain with your wife.
Deepen your feelings
Don't stay on the harsh example of your father, but if the news and the resulting images disturb how you feel about your father and how you and his childhood are, please discuss it all with the therapist
Spend time with your mom and don't reveal the truth.
Take care of her.
Consider contacting your other half again when you feel strong enough to handle itBrother or not.
Routine sex and daily changes in sexual therapy can improve the satisfaction of couples with different sexual impulses.
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