Writer David Foster Wallace once sneaked into the night of the highest adult award in the United States, what he called entering another world, one and a half
Hollywood has been tracked by Forrester underworld, earning almost twice as much as its cousin's $2 billion.
"Some people in the industry like to call the adult industry Hollywood evil twins, while others call it the mainstream Big Red Son," he wrote . ".
Wallace met a porn star who modified her body to the point where she could adjust the implant.
She can inflate her chest onto a bulging beach ball or deflate them to protect against male attention.
But the real revelation is not the shabby, vulgar lower abdomen in his porn-which is not surprising to Wallace.
This is a trend of porn degradation, with male dominance and female affiliation as the premise of pornography mainstreaming, with sperm spatula as the dominant evidence, with the goal of simulating rape pornography, paid consent abuse.
This is what Wallace really cares about.
That's the real problem with porn.
Professor Gail Dines recently led the charge of pornography and reignited the debate with her latest book, Pornland.
Angered by the new fall of women in porn, she called for the effective abolition of the porn industry.
Her motivation is good, but her solution is as big as the possibility of abolishing war.
Porn itself is left behind.
What we need to do is talk openly about the type of porn and the possibility of consuming better porn, in which case sex is fun and dynamic.
It exists-amateur-
Making Porn between reality
For the society, the way couples have sex is much better, but little is known.
I never thought porn was a big deal.
But from the generation where the vast world of internet porn has been naturalised, normalized, and embedded pink into everyday life, the story begins to spread slowly.
Friends take this question home and ask why men seem unable to distinguish between fantasy and reality.
"Why do I want a man to ejaculate on my face?
Asked a man incredibly.
"Of course, it's common in porn, but it's real life ".
Another: "Why do men keep putting pressure on me to have anal sex?
I don't like it at all, so why does a man so insist on trying it as if it is now part of "normal" sex?
Third: "anal sex requires a lot of trust-so why do men think I will start on the first night?
So these stories continue to circulate-stories of young men who clearly learn about sex from pornography, who model on the most disgusting porn stars, all bluffs, ass --
Slap your chest
Those who have learned to treat sex as a means to consume women, pinch and perform ejaculation.
This is the final victory on the screen to emphasize the image rather than the material, which is a rebound in the strong women who have been shaped by feminism.
Usually, a moral backlash against a new media form is based on an outdated notion that media information is like a needle injected under the skin, injecting their information directly into the passive population.
As a result, Rock leads to moral disintegration, video games lead to high school massacre, and pornography leads men to treat women as movable property.
That's not how the media works, of course.
Most people can tell the difference between reality and fantasy.
Therefore, scholars are paying more and more attention to the real areas where the media plays a strong role-especially the study of social roles.
Imagine that you are a shy teenage boy who has never really spoken to a girl before.
You have never been in contact with a woman, and you have never experienced how the whole process of sex unfolds.
If you live in off the beaten track of place
In a Christian country like Australia, it is likely that your parents have not really introduced sex to you.
This leaves your peers, bluffing or similarly clueless.
Or the endless porn available online for free.
The real problem of pornography does not exist at all.
Mainstream porn is based on an outdated assumption that the dominant man and the obedient woman, an idealized throw --
Before going back to feminism, those with larger muscles set up gender roles.
As Wallace wrote, the cliché of porn producers is true: "The typical porn producer is really an ugly little guy with a bad wig and a little finger --
Ring the same size as Rolaids.
The typical porn director really uses the word class as a noun to represent the refined person ".
As porn consumers get tired of traditional penises
In vaginal scenes, the industry has found novelty in anal sex, bundling, degeneration, and other marginal behaviors.
But thankfully, that's not all.
In the porn coverage, Catherine rupee, Alan McKee and Keith Albury noted that the boom in amateur porn was "particularly encouraging ".
With couples with cameras uploading their private lives, porn players are starting to use real couples who are really interested in each other, a more positive choice is emerging.
Of course, this porn is peeping, but it provides a better way to understand what experienced couples actually like to do with each other.
It is this type of porn that provides a way to go beyond the current dominance of bad porn-harmful to men, harmful to women, and bad ways to teach any teenager to have sex.
Doug Hendry is a freelance writer and writing teacher in Melbourne.
He wrote life on Sunday, Griffith Review, yen and Mary Claire.
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