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Some new moms and dads are having drinks and Skittles;
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October 22, 2015-10
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HLN host Drew Pinsky: Tonight, a woman seems to have hit a baby in the head with an iPad.
She had no idea the witness was recording the whole thing.
In addition, how about a glass of placenta smoothie? That is right.
Some new moms and dads are having drinks and Skittles. (
Introduction to Music)(
Applause from the audience)
Let's start.
Let's start with "top of Feed.
"You can't stop talking about things on Twitter and Facebook.
The woman was shot by a camera and hit a 3-year-
The face with the iPad is old. Have a look. (
Start Video Editing)
Unknown Boy:Crying)
Yvonne Camacho 39-YEAR-
Mother: here. Shut up.
Hey, why did you hit that kid like that? Hey!
Unidentified spokeswoman: Do you know it was found in the video along with your license plate?
Why are you hitting that little baby?
Female spokesperson (1)
Why did you hit him like that?
You can go to jail for this.
Female spokesperson (2)
: Play a child who can't protect himself.
If someone catches your hair and (EXPLETIVE WORD)
Throw you around you uglyEXPLETIVE WORD). (END VIDEO CLIP)
That woman is 39 years old. year-
Old Yvonne Camago
Later that night, the police got in touch.
She was not prosecuted.
We're not sure if it's a mother or a babysitter.
Judy Ho, a clinical psychologist and professor at the University of peperding, joined us.
My colleague, Mike Catherwood
Host at "Love Line" and Vanessa Barnett, Hiphollywood. com.
Please welcome them.
Mike, we also do radio shows on KABC.
Also forgot to mention this.
Dr. Mike Catherwood. DREW`S CO-
Host of "line of love": of course. Yes.
We just finished.
Vanessa, I'm asking from you, is that woman abusing that child?
Vanessa Barnett, social commentator: Okay.
You can never prove 3-year-
The face with the iPad is old.
I will start there, but I don't know if I will say it's abuse. And, I --
Pinsky: what do we call it?
There is no reason for this. Too much.
I don't know if this woman should be in jail.
I would say because I watched the video a few times.
I don't think it's a heavy blow.
This is an unnecessary blow.
I'm not defending this woman, but me. -
I have to be spanked.
And I have never been hit by an iPad.
I don't think you should hit a child's face with an iPad.
I don't think it's the kind of woman who hits the iPad on the child's head.
I think she went too far.
I think she's upset. -
I'm speechless, Judy. I do not know.
If this is not abuse, where do you draw the line?
Can you click them on your face with your iPad?
Clinical psychologist Judy he: Yes.
IPad mini.
IPad mini? Mini is OK?
IPad mini. HO:Right.
No one really cares. HO:No.
There are clear guidelines on what it is actually about spanking.
It's at the bottom.
And, it's open fist to some extent.
Pinsky: open your hand-Open fist? HO:Right. Open fist? Open hand. (LAUGHING)
Pinsky: but this is not intentional.
It is not intentional to leave traces. HO:Right.
PINSKY:I mean --
But Mike, my question is, is it correct for the bystanders, who are shooting the film?
CATHERWOOD: Well, I think the idea behind what they do is great, because if you can expose something wrong morally, ethically, no matter what you think,
But it's a good thing if you're going to expose something that's going down and these things are wrong.
I think their way, maybe her language.
You don't need to reach the point where you insult the lady as well.
Like, "Hey!
We're realizing you just hit a kid. PINSKY:Well --well. No, listen.
The couple who filmed the video also posted the following post, which said the lady was pulling out the child's hair in the Cole store.
So, they decided to make a movie of her stupid ass.
Watch her hit the child with a tablet.
They already saw her abusing the child.
Catherine: Yes.
Look, I don't think I'm pooh-
Sneer at your argument, but not necessarily abuse.
I just think the idea of hitting another person, whether it's a 3-year-
It's a very serious thing, you know.
I mean, it's kind of like an instinctive human impulse to defend yourself or like to do it, but it's a primitive impulse. BARNETT:No.
I think so. -
Maybe it's because there are so many violent movies and so on.
Pinsky: Vanessa, don't do that. Wait a minute.
CATHERWOOD: like the idea of really hitting someone, whether it's difficult or not, or even hitting a dog, what you're communicating, the message you're communicating by hitting something else is purely violent. (
Applause from the audience)
Okay, look, I'm glad you brought this animal up.
If this is an animal, Vanessa, from here to the Kingdom, people will cry and abuse.
This is our problem, people are crazy about their animals.
Pinsky: But wait!
In what kind of world, will attacking animals change behavior in a positive way?
What you get is a retreating animal that will bite people.
This puts you in trouble in the end. BARNETT:No. I believe --
Pinsky: guess what?
You are with the same people.
No, absolutely not.
I was sprayed.
I saw the kid spank.
Spare Life-
Pinsky: Well, she has to leave forever. BARNETT:--for the child.
I don't think it's wrong to hit a child on the child's thigh and ass.
No, you don't hit them in the face with an iPad.
But I don't think it's wrong to spank, we 've seen a lot of people grow up with spank.
Including me, I think I had a good time. (
Applause from the audience)[21:05:03]
We can debate this. HO:Oh, no --
But this is another topic. (LAUGHING)
Dr. He: there is another problem,Drew.
That's another problem with technology, right?
Now is just another great weapon for your child.
But Mike spoke very well when we talked about making decisions.
They don't have the right idea when they are angry and they are frustrated.
I mean, your brain.
Pick up the brain. PINSKY:Yes. HO:Right?
They no longer use their frontal lobe. (
Applause from the audience)PINEKY:Right. You are using --
When you hit someone-
Why are you laughing like that?
Catherwood: You have to focus on using your frontal lobe.
I'm talking about this in my life. (LAUGHING)
Pinsky: well, but when you act out of an ill-thought attack, that's not evolution, you use this part of the brain here, not the prefrontal cortex here, this is something that evolved very, very late, and I was angry when people were thinking about and considering the consequences.
I need you to stop and I need to feel better.
"Remember how we got mad at the girl who murdered her boyfriend because he saw him die?
This is no different from that.
CATHERWOOD:Yes. BARNETT:Oh --
Pinsky: No. BARNETT:OK.
Let me finish you. (LAUGHING)
Listen to me. I think that --
You are a parent and you have young children. I have a 1-year-old and so --
I don't think it's naive to say you don't feel it--
Where, you are just frustrated and confused about what to do, how to behave when your child misbehaves or is going crazy.
But, like you have a problem. -
It's like trying to put gas on the wound to help it feel better.
Do you know what I'm talking about?
Resorting to violence is your impulsive response and it won't make you feel better in the long run. PINSKY:Mike. Mike.
Wait, wait, wait.
I got an idea for Mike.
Mike, you're Mexican. CATHERWOOD:Yes. I am.
Hispanic.
Moreover, there are many glorious solutions in Mexican mythology.
CATHERWOOD:Yes. PINSKY:The OHO.
CATHERWOOD:Yes. No.
My grandma would think it would be a good idea to treat broken legs with mango paste and sea salt.
Not necessarily--
She may have done it for generations, just as it has never been to say what is a good excuse or an effective argument ---
We heard that--wait, wait --
But we hear all the myths about how to make a child stop crying--
CATHERWOOD: rub an egg on its belly. (LAUGHING)PINSKY:Yes.
Something very strange. Weird stuff.
Just like us.
We did crazy things, too.
You put some ivory on it and it will feel better.
You rub some Vickers steam and it will heal everything-
No, not all.
It works, but I bet if you yell at my mom, she'll shove you in her mouth and you won't do it again. (LAUGHING)
Pinsky: you won't do that again.
Judy, you won't do that again, but it will have consequences in other areas of conduct and in other areas of capacity that affect regulation, a mature adult ---
Judy, help me solve this problem.
This is the case.
I mean, I don't want to interrupt you, but I'm saying-I hit --
Sometimes when my DirecTV doesn't pass ---
If it's a wave. -I am serious.
I will hit it and it will work.
It will work, but I assure you that this is not the right way to fix the DirecTV issue.
PINSKY: And, it will not continue to work for a long time.
Yes, yes, yes.
But it does have--that is right.
It has consequences.
If people don't understand the consequences. HO:Right.
And some of the consequences are not even that serious. PINSKY:Yes. HO:Dr.
Drew, they started showing behavioral problems at school very early.
They are more inclined to solve problems with attacks.
As adults, they tend to have more disciplinary consequences.
Sometimes they participate in the law themselves.
I mean, we can go very far.
As far as I know Vanessa may indeed be fine as she has no criminal record.
But, you know, there might be something else in it?
The truth is that when you are physically training yourself to some extent, you are more likely to use it later on for your child.
And it's not always reasonable.
Pinsky: Well, we're going to talk about what is a butt-beating and what's more.
We can debate this.
And, this is actually a legitimate thing to consider, and we will do so after that. (MUSIC PLAYING)(
Applause from the audience)(
Business break)(
Start Video Editing)[21:11:58](TODDLER CRYING)
Don't yell at me. Get in the car. Here! Shut up. EDWARD:Hey!
Why did you hit that kid like that?
Spokeswoman: we have your license plate number. (END VIDEO CLIP)
PINSKY: We're talking about the woman who was photographed by the camera. year-
The face with the iPad is old.
Come back with Judy, Mike, Vanessa.
Now, Mike, someone on the Internet says, believe it or not. -
I was speechless when I heard this.
But say it's not what the abuse of that woman did.
Catherine: Yes.
Drew, we talked about this for other topics too, disgusting.
You know, just because something has been going on for a long time, isn't a valid argument about its necessity? --
PINSKY: continuity. Continuing it.
CATHERWOOD:Yes.
And, I mean, a lot of things have been going on for a long time.
You know, the consideration of women's ownership.
Like, "Well, we grew up from that.
"And, I'm not saying it's not the same as slavery, but a lot of families feel it's the right thing to beat your kids.
Pinsky: there's one thing.
It is associated with physical attacks, physical discipline and behavioral issues, as well as crime, emotional issues, and drug use.
Almost directly related.
But, Vanessa, as far as you are concerned, what is it?
You know, nothing could be done.
You might be right.
But if you have a physical reaction to a child, if they feel helpless, if they feel endangered, you cross. BARNETT:Look.
Scars, marks, blood, concussion-
Pinsky: you have crossed, over! HO:Way over.
Barnett: It's all abuse.
But there's pop music here, no.
This is not abuse.
Pinsky: Okay.
OK, let's get to know it more deeply with our audience.
What did you prepare for us?
Spokeswoman: Hi.
To the extent of spanking, I kind of agree with her because I grew up in the ass-beating generation.
I was spanked and I didn't agree with the mother, especially at that age. PINSKY:OK. So, hitting --
How old are you playing?
Unidentified spokeswoman: Well, I think on a level that they can understand, I would like to explain why you did that.
I have seen the children lose their temper.
I know I may have been spanked and I deserve it.
And it's on the ass.
And, it used to be, it's not a weapon, or do you know? PINSKY:OK. OK.
So, we can at least agree that there may be a problem with grabbing an object? Vanessa.
Barnett: it's possible, yes. PINSKY:OK.
We try to get their attention in order to get real pain, right?
But, look at how people generalize?
Okay, let's--
Well, I just wanted to get his attention and face the iPad now.
But you agree with that, isn't it a line crossing?
Spokeswoman: Yes, I agree with you.
But, I think one hand is on the ass to let your kids know why when you give them a warning that you do it in a calm way and with your energy ---PINSKY:OK. OK.
That's another problem. that's calm. HO:Right.
Pinsky: It's not that good if a child feels they're under attack. HO:Right.
However, how do you really make sure that it is calm every time? Right, Dr. Drew? PINSKY:Yes.
HO: Here's my problem with spanking.
I want to say, don't do this because we have a lot of other more developed ways to discipline our children and give them lessons. [21:15:00]
Pinsky: And, the key is Vanessa.
Hold on, don't applause.
The point is, if it really works, or there's no better way, why wouldn't someone like Judy recommend it?
We will recommend it.
Does anyone object?
I can understand, but I can assure you that there are some serial killers who have time.
There should be a pop on the ass.
I can assure you. (LAUGHING)(
Applause from the audience)
Pinsky: Okay.
Let's go back to our audience.
You have a question or comment. Yes.
Unidentified spokeswoman: Do you think it's okay to beat someone else's child?
Barnett: Oh, no.
Don't touch me. (LAUGHING)PINSKY:OK.
We all agree with that, Mike.
That set a very strange precedent. PINSKY:Yes.
CATHERWOOD: I mean, so it's OK for you to say something about your own child, but it's very inappropriate to consider doing it to someone else?
It really doesn't make any sense.
It's like a doctor.
Drew said, "I will never prescribe this for you as a patient because it is too dangerous, but I will do it myself.
Or give it to my child. Fine.
CATHERWOOD:Yes.
I mean, it doesn't make much sense.
Another question.
Spokeswoman: Hi.
I am the mother of three children and the grandmother of two children.
And I will never hit any of them.
I never had a butt.
I don't need it.
But isn't that teaching them to want to hit other kids?
Be aggressive.
Yes, that's what Judy said.
Female Speaker: Yes.
Pinsky: it is a model of aggression.
It says aggression is the way you solve the problem.
What will you do if someone makes you unhappy.
What you let them do, it won't.
You used your hand. HO:Right.
And there are a lot of other things that can happen when you become aggressive. PINSKY:Yes.
We're talking about how you don't use the meditation part.
You use the aggressive part.
But this is the case.
What is really terrible is that the child's anterior lobe is not developing properly. HO:Yes.
PINSKY: integration, the connection between brain reasoning stopped, if the attack ---
If physical abuse is enough.
That's why people end up taking drugs because they can't adjust, they enter the world with a feeling of being too strong and too long, really out of control, too negative, they tried to solve the problem by taking a substance.
What is your question?
Unidentified female speaker: So, when you're a mother, you have these kids, you get impatient, you're tired, you're grumpy, all these things, what do you suggest to do to alleviate your anger at your child?
Just like how do you call back anger?
Pisky: Vanessa has just arrived.
No, I don't know. I walk away.
It's like I'm almost 2-year-old.
And there are times when you are very overwhelmed.
But I feel the same way myself.
And I felt very uncertain about myself, so I walked away.
I said to my husband, can you handle it? I may --
You know, there are other ways I can't pop up my 2-year-old. But, a 7-year-
Old people sometimes need pop music.
And, it's just--PINSKY:A pop?
Barnett: a little--(LAUGHING)
HO: Why do you need pop music when you can talk to them verbally at that age?
They can understand the consequences. -
Barnett: because--
They can understand what you tell them.
BARNETT: it doesn't work for some kids.
If you take my stuff away, I'm still a kid, and my reaction is better, and I take action accordingly. PINSKY:Good.
BARNETT: My brother is a kid who needs to spank and he will respond exactly as he should.
Pinsky: Mike, what about the man who made the film?
Is he right to do this?
CATHERWOOD:Yes. I think so.
I mean, really.
Especially now, this is a very vague area, so a lot of controversy began with people taking out their phones to shoot people.
But if you're looking, you know, even those who support spanking, I think we all agree.
It's like playing a 3-it's not good. year-Because a 3-year-
The brain is like jelly. o.
They don't know what's going on. PINSKY:Yes.
CATHERWOOD: all they know is that I just got hit in the face with the iPad.
Pinsky: That's right.
CATHERWOOD: I mean, it's like a rush from scratch.
Pinsky: Okay.
So, let me end some of my thoughts, and I think we're all saying the same thing, first of all, pick up an object and you 've crossed the line.
This is an easy thing to see.
And, whenever I work with a patient. And I have-
When I dealt with it, I asked them if they were physically abused.
And they always say, no.
I said, "Have you been beaten? No. No.
They said, "Well, I think I'm disciplined. Well, OK.
Did anyone hit you with something?
"Well, of course, like anyone else.
Baseball bat or something.
"This happens a lot and you will be shocked.
People turn a blind eye to the traumatic experience, incorporate it into their philosophy and culture, and say, "Hey, this is what I need.
See how great I am now.
Heroin is a small problem, but I am very good.
Literally, this is what people think.
I'm not accusing you, Vanessa.
But that's it.
This is what happened.
This is an extreme example.
I'm not saying it's wrong to spank itself.
Besides saying that in every study you do, the more you play, the greater the correlation with bad results.
So, why do we do this, especially if we have all of these unrelated alternatives.
If you're not doing it right, then maybe you should spank, but not too much. Come back after this. (LAUGHING)(MUSIC PLAYING)(
Applause from the audience)(
Business break)[21:23:20](
Applause from the audience)
PINSKY: it's time for what we call sexy text messages and you have the opportunity to ask me and my group all the sexual and relationship questions you might have.
You can talk to us on Facebook, Twitter, right in our studio audience.
I came back with Judy, Vanessa and Mike.
We will start with Dawn on Twitter. All right. Here it is.
"When a man reaches a climax quickly, does that mean he doesn't care about the woman?
Catherwood: What? (LAUGHTER)
Pinsky: Mike, this must be saying, "you never care about any woman.
I must hate all women. Yes, I do.
I had four orgasms during the show. (LAUGHING)(
Applause from the audience)
Pinsky: in fact-
In fact, if there is one, it usually means one is more concerned.
Yes, I mean.
You see, there are two things in the game, or a combination of the two.
And, you or he really has, you know, real premature ejaculation, or both. PINSKY:Both.
Some people clock a little fast.
Some people have long clocks.
And if your tendency is to go fast and you're with your partner, that's it.
Otherwise, it will be difficult for him to do this. What is up?
Do you have something to say?
CATHEWOOD: Oh, no. -Yes.
What I meant to say
I mean, a lot of women, if they-
By the way, look at the two people listening to you.
They said, "Tell me more.
What's going on with this?
How does this work? " (LAUGHING)
CATHERWOOD: But, what I'm trying to say is, by the way, her wording is pretty much confusing, and I think maybe this person, like doing it on purpose and quickly ---
Pinsky: go out. CATHERWOOD:--
Like, "Well, I'm going to see the Bulls. PINSKY:Yes. Yes. Yes. It could be.
Let's meet the audience.
What did you prepare for us? Yes, ma`am.
Spokeswoman: Hi.
I just thought Tech was really dating, websites like Tinder, and all of this stuff, and all of a sudden every man thinks you just want to hook up. [21:25: 02]
Pinsky: By the way, we need to do a full presentation on this. HO:Yes.
Because, really, this is a big problem.
CATHERWOOD:Yes.
Pinsky: I mean, women put up with incredible things on Tinder.
I'll tell you that when I'm on the grinder it's like--I mean (LAUGHING)never mind. Never mind.
I'm sorry, ladies. Go ahead.
My friends have horror stories.
But it's not that much to ruin dating.
Just like canceling the appointment completely.
They always had pictures of the penis.
Like they and--
Pinsky: everyone thinks you like this. BARNETT:Yes.
They thought about it and said, "I don't want to take you out.
Let me come over. we will calm down.
We all know what that means. (LAUGHING)PINSKY:Yes.
Now, let me give you a few pearls from the clinic.
Porn addiction is now far from the chart. It is very high.
Now, the other thing we see is that we are kind of seeing sexual dysfunction in young men, like young men, who should not have difficulty with erectile dysfunction.
They were exhausted from the wake-up of porn so that they could not work properly. Judy says, yes.
Lauren on Facebook said: "Do you believe that once a liar was always a liar?
My boyfriend cheated his last girlfriend.
Am I naive to trust him?
This is a complicated problem.
There is such a thing, is just a liar guy.
Some people take drugs and drink. you have to worry about cheating.
What do you say, Mike?
CATHERWOOD:Yes. PINSKY:Yes.
Of course.
Moreover, this is such a complex issue for many reasons. PINSKY:Yes.
Catherwood: It's a bit far from my salary level.
This is for you and Judy.
But some people-
They have clinical problems and they don't understand how others feel. PINSKY:Right.
And they don't even think it's cheating. PINSKY:Right.
CATHERWOOD: It's like they metabolize their chances.
Some people are anti-social.
Some people are only 22 years old.
But I just wanted to say--yes.
With A man, you may have cheated your girlfriend "A" when you are 22 years old ". PINSKY:Yes.
Catherwood: You were completely different by the time you were 30.
Pinsky: That's right.
You are a very different person.
You know, it's bound to be connected.
Pinsky: Have you ever had contact with people who are good at college now.
I'm also a liar.
I used to cheat men.
My mom will tell me. -
No, I'm not bragging.
I'm not bragging.
But, I just said, when I was young, I didn't value each other's feelings as much as I did myself.
Pinsky: I told my wife, I said, "You know," We're talking about how we have ---
What we have to go through early in our relationship.
I said: "You know, people in their 20 s, we treat each other in their 20 s like garbage.
This is what men and women do when they are 20 years old.
They are not good to each other.
"CATHEWOOD: But, I think it's a little bit of a go back to the last question with a lot of technology--
You give up a lot of anger that you interact with others. PINSKY:Yes.
And you are not good to each other.
In this way, you will have more knowledge to accumulate, so that in the future life, you will become more good at dealing with social problems. PINSKY:Yes. You are right. Yes.
CATHERWOOD: I think if you can slide like a right, a girl comes to your house and it really makes a mess of your whole understanding of the dance routine.
Pinsky: you will never learn a lot.
Back to the audience.
Male speaker: Hi.
Yes, I have one about--
I have a girlfriend for two years now.
Catherwood: good.
Unidentified male Speaker: she is a bit reserved and conservative.
I want to try something new in bed, but I don't know how to break it without scaring her.
I heard it, brother.
I heard it, brother. (LAUGHING)
Pinsky: try to get rid of inappropriate smiles when you ask her these questions.
That's what I have to say.
Barnett: Don't be so scary. PINSKY:Yes.
Just a little cooler.
But, Judy, how do you sort these things out? (LAUGHING)
Well, you know, I think you mean your girlfriend is a bit conservative.
But how much did you actually discuss openly with her?
How much money do you really have to go to her without your creepy smile here, instead of seriously proposing, asking her what she wants.
It doesn't matter if you don't look adventurous, but if you're with her, you ask her, "or what you can do for me. "Yes.
Pinsky: have you been there? -
Ask her an open one.
End question like this, "Is this what you want to do?
"Unidentified male speaker: We talk about it sometimes, but she just giggled a bit or just--
PINSKY:Oh, yes.
This girl sounds like a monster. (LAUGHING)HO:Yes. She was giggling.
Barnett: It's crazy.
Let me tell you Vanessa knows the monster. (LAUGHING)
She smiled because she would say, "I know something you don't know. " BARNETT:Yes.
Pinsky: But, Mike, support me in this matter.
CATHERWOOD:Yes.
Pinsky: she may give him a hint, hoping he will stick to it.
CATHERWOOD: Well, as a young man, it's hard because you can only think through the prism of one's brain. PINSKY:Yes.
Catherwood: We thought, "Well, it's sex that makes you sexually excited. why not try it?
"That's what you think when you have a penis, because when you have a penis, everything is easy.
But because, like physically, mentally, the whole thing about a woman is very complicated and you have to build a vagina.
That's all I want to say. (LAUGHING)
Pinsky: this is your life policy.
CATHERWOOD:Yes.
The core of what you do in the bedroom must always ---
The core is vag and then you build around it.
So you find a way to make her happy.
Seriously, you have to figure it out, be consistent with her and figure out how to get women to orgasm.
And then from there you start.
You have to start there.
Because once a woman is able to continue to reach a climax, you may be surprised at how much profit you can get. You know? (
Applause from the audience)
Pinsky: Thank you. Thank you.
Pinsky: So far, what do you think of Mike?
You applauded very positively in your final review.
What do you think? [21:30:00]
A spokeswoman: he's right.
He's right.
You're fine, or he won't offend you.
Spokeswoman: not at all. PINSKY:OK.
Hello everyone, our stage manager. (LAUGHING)
Thank you, Roda. (
Applause from the audience)
Pinsky: Okay. Dan on Facebook
His wife, he said, "my wife
Working with all male colleaguesworkers.
When she comes home, she chooses to fight and tries to move around.
How do I get her to stop competing when she leaves the office?
"Well, this is a very difficult question.
Because we want to assess what's going on in this relationship.
He may blame this on the work environment, but that may not be the case.
This may not be the case. PINSKY:Yes.
He: this is her default character.
This could be a long-standing conflict in their relationship.
He wants to find an external problem to explain it, but maybe they need to look at the relationship from.
Pinsky: that's what I think--almost --
CATHERWOOD:Yes.
There is nothing more appealing than you are dealing with any type of conflict by strengthening your own game. PINSKY:Yes.
Catherwood: You know, like he looked at it from the outside, "Oh, she's with a powerful sexy man on the high, how can I make up for that, and understand the core of what she needs to do.
"How about making yourself stronger and sweet? PINSKY:Yes.
CATHERWOOD: To be honest, none of this applies.
Or you can change yourself.
The last question.
Spokeswoman: Hi, doctor. Drew.
Hi, madam.
Unidentified female speakers: So, we 've heard a lot about celebrities, teenage mothers and the sex life of people every day on your show.
So, now, I'm curious.
Do you or anyone in your group have some crazy sex stories or fetishes? (
Applause from the audience)
Do we have time to answer this question? HO:Vanessa.
Pisky: Vanessa is a member of this group.
It may take a while. Come on now --
Wait, do I really have time to discuss this? Or we should consider ---
Okay, we will continue. BARNETT:Yes.
Catherwood: Can I talk about your time with me and all Molly and the Pope in Bissau?
But she wanted to know what was going on at home.
I think--
We are all married and we have children.
I think you have to be spontaneous when you get married to your child.
Sometimes, where do you do it, how fast do you do it, except on what device do you do it on.
Could be very exciting without a device? CATHERWOOD:No.
How fast did you say you did it?
I think I can understand that. Yeah. (LAUGHING)
Pinsky: Mike, you have a baby in your family. So, it is --CATHERWOOD:Yes.
Pinsky: you must-
This is a completely different thing.
Biology changes after pregnancy.
You have to be a father for a while, right?
CATHERWOOD: Well, it's also weird when you get married and you're in a marriage, just like you have a healthy sex life, because it's almost like a male brain doesn't understand it. (LAUGHING)It is like --
I am a little boy.
I remember going to Chuck E.
Cheese or like an arcade, you put a quarter into the game.
And, it's always a problem because you're a little kid and you don't have the money so you have to figure out how to get the dorm.
Then I went to a kid, like his dad was bowling, and he rented a bunch of Arcadia.
And, you can play as you like without putting any coins, I can hardly accept it.
Just like my brain didn't get it.
I think, "it's too good to be true.
"Like a loyal relationship, you can have sex all the time, just like sometimes I still don't like to wrap my head around it.
I think, "Wait, I can--
Like we can explode at any time?
"Like," it doesn't matter, is it healthy?
"PINSKY: Please pay attention to your question about this.
There is no fetish except that the empty nest thing is "BS.
"It's like the guy who bought the arcade.
We have our own house.
This is a good time.
Thank you again to the audience. Here we go.
Male speaker: Hello.
I have a problem.
My ex just dumped me.
I don't think that's my problem.
I don't feel like she can be with me because I can reach multiple orgasms. So she thinks-Thank you.
She thinks I need to check it out.
She thinks it is a disease.
I think, "I don't think so.
I think it's great for you. " (LAUGHING)
Pinsky: you have a continuous climax.
Spokeswoman: Yes. Like "Aah!
"I have been walking. Aah! (LAUGHING)PINSKY:No. No. Oh, my gosh.
What are we watching here? (LAUGHING)
Male speaker: that's it.
She has these things and she has to take a break but I'm still going. PINSKY:OK. So, it is not --
Women have multiple orgasms.
They have no refractive period.
Men have multiple consecutive orgasms. OK.
Let's go to rest.
We will be back soon. (LAUGHING)(MUSIC PLAYING)[21:34:05](
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An unidentified female journalist: a trend of thousands of new mothers has cost a woman her business.
Baby Nurse Catherine bill makes placenta shakes and pills for women.
She and other placenta advocates said, "a dry powder was used in Europe centuries ago.
But the health authorities say there is a potential risk in her current product and Beale has been shut down. (END VIDEO CLIP)
Oh, my God.
What is the time for this?
"Incredible stories dominate your conversations in the office, at home and on the Internet.
Come back with Mike, Judy and Vanessa.
Placenta consumption.
After birth, we can--
I think we saw sausage.
Can any type of postpartum really help with postpartum medical problems?
Mike, come now.
CATHERWOOD:Yes.
PINSKY:Come on. CATHERWOOD:I --
My wife and I ate her placenta.
Did you attend?
CATHERWOOD:Yes.
But I think when people hear about eating the placenta, it becomes a complete process, right?
They made a pile of placenta.
Joseph Wood: well-
They collected it.
CATHERWOOD:Yes.
Then they steam it and then let it dehydrate.
Then they grind it into pills.
Not ours. No, no.
PINSKY: I mean combine it with the juice and use it for smoothies.
They can make water cans or beef jerky.
But we just got it. -
They cleaned it up, and then we did it.
It's like a piece of beef.
I make smoothies for my wife every morning.
No beef?
CATHERWOOD:Yes.
I would cover up the flavor with something like maple syrup and fruit.
And she just drank.
Once I tried-
I'm like half a man.
This is the only time I can get rid of the diners.
So, I like to fry it and eat it. PINSKY:No? HO:No. PINSKY:Yes. I am with you. [21:40:00]HO:No. Yes --
I mean, there is no clinical study to support this as it is in the favor of the mother or father in any case. PINSKY:Right. Right.
Various claims that postpartum depression is down.
The increase in breast milk. HO:Right.
Provide better energy for the mother.
Pinsky: I mean, just because a dog ate its placenta after delivery, it also ate its feces.
This is the case. Yes.
Mammals eat a lot of things we don't eat.
Eating the placenta in mammals does not mean that we also eat the placenta.
My wife is in there. -
Pills or placenta.
CATHERWOOD: Placenta--
My wife thinks there will be some healing properties and healing properties for this.
So I don't want to argue with her.
Well, we know she's a hippie. Am I wrong? (LAUGHING)
My wife is a hippie.
Barnett: I'm here for this. It is mine.
Why can't I have it?
Did you do it?
I really want to go, but my husband is against it.
He thinks it's too expensive.
It's expensive.
Pinsky: talk to Mike.
He has a variety of recipes. BARNETT:Yes. Look --
PINSKY: you can hang it on the tape outside your house,--
I will do it. It is mine.
Catherwood: I made the tortillas.
Great. (LAUGHING)
Pinsky: Okay.
Let's meet the audience.
What did you prepare for us?
Spokeswoman: this is a question for everyone.
Is there any scientific research coming out soon, or is there someone trying to look at whether this has a practical effect on people's hormonal regulation?
Pinsky: people are studying it.
I don't know what's big.
Study hard.
There must be something in progress.
Because there's a lot to do.
Fortunately, it doesn't seem to hurt. Right? No harm.
So, this is good news.
But, apparently in January, Jones, Alicia Silverstone, they all said, "Oh, yes!
I am the placenta.
"Of course, they won't be vaccinated anyway.
I don't know those two.
But what I mean is that people think about biology is primitive and strange.
This is the case.
Most research so far is anecdotal.
And, like--
Are we looking at pizza? What is that? HO:Yes. Oh, God!
I can't even focus now. I know.
But, yes, this is anecdotal so far.
So, they don't really separate the benefits from the benefits.
So the placebo effect is very, very strong. PINSKY:Yes.
People do say they feel better, but we don't know where to come from.
Pinsky: Please, Placebo. really, what are we talking about ---
I'm not reducing placebo.
This is a very powerful phenomenon.
This is probably everything we see here.
So, before doing research on things that don't contain the placenta, we don't know what's going on. Come back after this. (MUSIC PLAYING)(
Business break)(
Applause from the audience)[21:46:27]
PINSKY: it's time to "click fix" and this panel tells me what's going on their Facebook, Twitter and Instagram feeds. We are still --
And, of course, Judy, Mike and Vanessa.
We started with Vanessa.
Vanessa, what happened?
Barnett: Okay.
So, I saw the promise of the climax on Facebook.
Obviously, I stopped because everyone wanted it.
In fact, they say 100% of women will have children ---
Will give you a climax, so it's called Vawow.
I have some data here. -
Pinsky: What is it called?
I want to check him? BARNETT:Vawow!
Wawo?
Barnett: What else do you call it?
Wait, spell it out. Spell it.
Barnett: it's V-A-WOW! PINSKY:Vawow! BARNETT:Like --
Yeah, it's like a climax. wow.
PINSKIY: same as vavoom. Like vavoom. CATHERWOOD:V-A-WOW? BARNETT:V-A-WOW. PINSKY:OK.
BARNETT: After the first use, 70% reached a climax.
For the second use, 84% reached a climax.
After the fourth use, 100% of women reached a climax.
What is it, it's like a condom, there's a ring outside.
It's wobbly and airy.
Pinsky: I want to call. (LAUGHING)
Do you want something better?
You're talking about birth control.
I mean, I thought it was what you ate. BARNETT:No. You put it in. PINSKY:OK.
So, it's like a female condemnation of a vibrating ring. Got it. BARNETT:Judy?
I created this very interesting blog.
This father named Steven has a 2-year-
The son wrote a blog to celebrate his wife.
And, in the blog, he actually talked about the fact that, as a lodging person, she was worth a lot of money --at-home mom.
He actually calculated and broke down what he caused.
She says she will earn at least $74,000 when you consider childcare, running groceries, running errands and bookkeeping.
At the end of the blog, he said, "Baby, I can't afford you.
You are more valuable to me than Ruby. "Thank you.
Pinsky: that's it.
There is a fault. HO:Yes.
Pinsky: of course.
I always said that.
Unfortunately, women cannot have this. HO:Yes.
Do you know what I mean? It is really --
It makes me sad because it is actually more in the priceless area.
Let your mom take care of your child there and let her take care of me there when I need her. It is --come on now. HO:Right.
Pinsky: women need to accept this.
CATHERWOOD: I also don't think people recognize that.
I think it's much bigger for other women not to admit it. PINSKY:Yes.
CATHERWOOD: because once you have kids with a woman, it's going to change a lot.
The whole idea of what women do as mothers does change.
Pinsky: of course.
Later, they wanted to return to the world again.
We have to be able to do this because it's another way you make sense for your life.
What's the matter, Mike.
Catherwood: talking about women in the worldDrew.
I have a very interesting study about divorce.
Everyone in this country seems to be getting divorced.
Also, I created the study, which shows that "women who get divorced once or men who get divorced at least twice are more likely to have a heart attack than those who get married.
The real bad news is that women who divorce twice or more are at the same level of health risk as people with diabetes or high blood pressure.
Or heart disease.
Yes.
Or a heart attack. CATHERWOOD:Yes.
And if men remarry, the good news could reverse the risk of a heart attack.
And, it's just because men are disgusting and they always remarry people under 40.
Pinsky: OK, thank you for your "click Fix ".
"We have to take a break.
After that, come back with the audience. (MUSIC PLAYING)(
Audience Appalachian D)[21:49:42](
Business break)
Pinsky: it's time for us to say that. Drew`s Qs.
"You have the opportunity to ask anything on Facebook, Twitter, and of course in the audience.
I will answer your question about any topic.
Let's start with Chris on Twitter.
"I quit smoking, but I want to continue smoking marijuana.
Is it too bad?
"Very, very different.
Tobacco certainly does not cause cancer.
The male hormone that causes vascular disease like tobacco.
But I do sometimes feel that when we enter the era when cannabis is legal in many states, I feel that Benjamin is back in 1780.
He looked at the tobacco and said, "I don't think this is going to be so good.
I'm just a little worried.
So, it's very different.
So, a completely different question.
Questions from the audience.
Unidentified spokeswoman: I have just started dating this man who has been awake from alcohol and heroin for five years.
He was very moody, I noticed.
I'm curious how long people have to wake up before they build some kind of chemical balance.
Pinsky: Well, it may be a long time.
Sometimes--
It depends on how much medicine they take.
They always have some emotional struggles.
"I will tell you," he went to take the opium and suggested that he was scarred.
Sometimes, people do not get proper trauma treatment during rehabilitation.
Someone who really should be working on trauma treatment five years later is an opium addict.
So what I call full recovery, complete recovery, or full prosperity. [21:55:00]
So it was amazing that he did a good job in recovery and congratulated him.
But urging him to take some trauma treatment now too to deal with anything-
Before he used heroin that contributed to heroin, the regulatory issues and his emotions were there. Got it? OK. That is it.
Let's go to Facebook.
Steve on Facebook
"Have you ever? night stand? "Me?
Have I ever? night stand?
Is that what they asked?
I believe it was a long time ago. Yep.
Yes, I must have. I was (EXPLETIVE WORD)
When I was 20, too.
All the people, right?
Questions from our studio audience
Let's start.
Male speaker: Hey, doctor. Drew.
I recently moved to Los Angeles. A.
Where are all the drugs?
So what is a good, safe or safer drug?
I know what your opinion is?
Safer drugs?
Well, marijuana is a safer drug.
People will not die because of this.
But if you have such a problem, don't mistake it for something that is not addictive.
What has left me impatient today is prescription drugs.
If someone is addicted to cocaine and heroin, when they die, they die because of an excessive prescription.
So, the most dangerous thing is my peers, which is the most terrible thing for me.
Unidentified male Speaker: something that has not caused cognitive impairment for a long time
Term in any way.
PINSKY: do not cause long timeterm --
Leading to long-term things--
I'm not worried about cognitive issues when it comes to drugs.
What's more, the center of motivation is screwed up.
What I see in a mental hospital is a serious emotional disorder, especially a hallucinogen.
I will see it from doping, meth.
What are you looking?
Whatever you're doing, Drew.
I'm having coffee.
Just drink coffee.
This is my suggestion.
OK, do I think programs like AA work for all addicts, or can acupuncture, hypnosis, and meditation be treated effectively?
We call it adjuvant therapy.
They are not treatments themselves.
Hypnosis is useful.
Of course, the mindfulness of meditation is certain. 12-
Of course, not everyone can do this.
But if someone is seriously addicted, they need to see me if someone is seriously addicted, and they need 12 steps.
Someone has to sit on them if there is no other reason.
People who have gone through the recovery process are willing to dedicate themselves, dedicate their time, and their energy gives a person in the same situation, and you need someone who sometimes sits on them for a few months.
And you can't do it with a professional.
And you can't do it with your family and friends.
They won't tolerate this, but someone who can really understand what you're dealing with because someone benefits themselves by doing so from them ---for them. They will do it.
So, serious addiction, yes, 12 steps. Studio audienceHi.
Spokeswoman: Hi.
My name is Debbie. I'm 9 years old.
Sober alcohol. (
Applause from the audience)
Congratulate you. Way to go.
Spokeswoman: Thank you.
I just arrived in Southern California.
My support systems are all in the modstow area in central California.
So, as a newbie to the area, I'm just wondering what I can do to stay awake?
Pinsky: Do you have anything to do with your sponsors in the north?
Spokeswoman: No.
She moved to Hawaii.
PINSKY: it's your first business to find a sponsor.
I don't care if you find a family meeting.
I don't care if you go to a lot of meetings or if you find a connection with someone who has been awake for at least five years.
Do you really serve others?
Unidentified spokeswoman: I have been serving in moderstowe for the last eight years.
So it's like a fish out of the water here, don't know ---
Do you know?
I know a lot of people on this project.
I will introduce you to someone after this show. How about that?
Spokeswoman: Thank you.
Pinsky: that's what it is. (
Applause from the audience)
PINSKY: On twitter, "My feelings about powdered alcohol and the abuse that's going to happen.
"Look, I actually-It is weird.
I don't have much strong feelings about this.
My feeling is if people-
If they want alcohol, they will find a way to use it, whether it's powder or--
Enema, hiccup or snoring-
They use another form of alcohol powder.
I don't know why we need it, but you know, I think they can pour it over more easily in this way, it's a problem that young people can hide it.
Every time these advances come-
Symbolically, progress.
This is the first problem for young people.
They thought it was cool and ended up getting hurt.
Do we still have time to answer the audience's questions?
Okay, there's an audience question.
Female Speaker: doctorDrew, hi. PINSKY:Yes. Hi.
Unidentified spokeswoman: I have a question about the growing asexual movement.
What advice does anyone get from it?
Because a lot of people, you know, send it away because they have problems or medical problems.
They might not. PINSKY:No.
You know, this is another group when they don't need to come out?
They are the latest groups that need awareness and support.
I think it's Bruce Jenner's business to be transgender now.
People know a lot about it.
There is a group that is considered asexsexual.
Moreover, they should be welcomed like everyone else.
I mean, I hope they don't--
I would be surprised if the group was judged like some other sexual orientation, but they would be marginalized.
So don't let this happen.
This is inappropriate.
Spokeswoman: Great. Thank you.
Pinsky: Hello everyone.
Thanks to the audience.
Thank you for watching at home.
See you next time. Good night. (
Applause from the audience)[22:00:00](MUSIC PLAYING)