Sex is usually done without emotional intimacy, casual hook-up, one-night stand, and paying for sex. All examples show that emotional intimacy is completely ineffective.
Emotional Intimacy brings a whole new dimension to sex, which blends sexual desires and needs completely into the mind, emotion and body, into one level, leading to extra ecstasy.
If you 've ever had sex with someone you're in
You will understand what I mean.
Emotional intimacy creates a psychological trigger when feelings between two people expose vulnerability, life experiences, friends, family, hope, dreams, fear and desire to share and communicate with each other in each other's inner thoughts and feelings.
It is this unconstrained disclosure that makes emotional intimacy the pinnacle of achieving this goal, so both sides have experienced the best sex ever.
It is also crucial if a relationship is to grow, develop and provide the basis.
If there is no emotional intimacy, no matter how good sex is, the relationship will die, and sex will never maintain the sex life of two people. .
If you seek a relationship of love. .
Connect first!
Lack of emotional intimacy in relationships is common, so its Lack can lead to tension, lack of communication, lack of care for another person --
If you feel how this is possible, just look at the men and women who have one-night stands, even if they don't know that it was a one-night stand at the time, where other people disappeared, or what happened afterwards, just like you are a commodity.
No intimacy, hugs, long eye contact, soft kiss, hand in hand, but awkward silence. .
I will call you when they disappear outside the door.
If a relationship does not have time to develop an emotional intimacy before committing to sex, then the possibility of such a relationship going beyond the stage of desire is minimal, because it prevents the development of such a relationship, when a relationship has nowhere to go, it will stagnate, wither, and finally die.
Of course, in this fast-meeting society, it seems that people want everything that is immediate, including sex, and it's good if that's your goal --
But if you 've passed a stage where a more casual approach to sex doesn't meet your expectations, then it may be time to re-evaluate.
Sex alone does not produce an Oscar-winning epic love story on the screen. .
Desire, instant physical attraction is a good example of sexual intimacy without emotional intimacy, because once the desire for the body disappears, it is inevitable if there is no deeper emotional bond, so
In modern society, this situation is increasing and women often regret having sex too early.
Women usually need to make real connections with men first. .
Sex does not bring emotional intimacy, nor does it bring interest in building a relationship of love, if so, a night date, or a date that occurs after a date or two, everyone will build relationships and continue to build them.
If we want to feel relaxed in a relationship, when we need support under pressure, many situations in life lead us to need a partner, then emotional intimacy is necessary. Without emotional intimacy, we will realize how empty a relationship is.
Many people are eager for a relationship full of love and loyalty, but when it comes to "emotional communication, openness, finding yourself flinch, or even completely flinch.
Be selective when choosing a potential partner. Many people find that being honest with their feelings can cause them more pain than love.
Telling others what they really feel, rather than bringing people closer, will allow another person to run away.
It makes them question whether it's a good idea to first reveal how they feel, but if you're really looking for a commitment relationship of mutual love, emotional disclosure is a prerequisite
Any healthy love, growing relationship is necessary, but not all men and women are emotionally healthy and mature enough to appreciate, respect and reward this feeling.
Emotionally unhealthy and immature men and women tend to have higher value for the intensity/excitement generated by staying outside the relationship, once there are signs of stagnation due to lack of emotional disclosure, they will move on and disappear!
Emotionally immature men and women are hard to appreciate, not to mention the feeling of rewarding emotional honesty, love, although vulnerability is attracted to accidental encounters without emotional intimacy for many psychological reasons, there is no doubt that manipulation strategies may be a powerful source of high adrenaline. For some (sadly)
This is the only way they know how to interact and connect with the opposite sex.
We all know or know people like this and will back down once they get involved.
Their pessimism about the long term
The term relationship is usually very high, you may not see it in the first few dates, and once the physical intimacy occurs, the relationship will surface.
They separate you from their space.
They will definitely keep their privacy, texting from just seeing you and not inviting you to their home.
Sex is so fast that you can't judge this.
Emotionally healthy people seek emotional alliances before emotionally healthy and mature men and women desire and need healthy emotional expression, openness and honesty.
They realize realistically that any relationship with others can cause pain, but don't be afraid to put their hearts on their sleeves, also do not run away at a man or woman who they are drawn to express his or her feelings.
It is a sign of joy for them, not of withdrawal.
You have this inner barometer of emotions when you are emotionally healthy (
Some are called emotional intelligence)
You instinctively know when and how much to reveal.
The point of the problem is that if your childhood experience is unhealthy, or if you have been in a relationship where you have not really felt love and care, your inner emotional barometer may be wrong, therefore, your judgment on what is healthy will be a little inconsistent in reality.
This often leads to too little disclosure too late.
You don't tell others what you really feel because you are worried that your feelings won't be rewarded or that you will be hurt at some point in the future.
Or you feel that you have to make a commitment that makes you feel trapped and suffocated.
The hard work of controlling your feelings makes you emotionally indifferent, clinically, emotionally unavailable, and manipulated (
Play intelligence games)or not genuine.
Summing up the journey of emotional intimacy to sum up: emotional honesty and intelligence are the gifts of human beings, the difference between us and machines (
Emotional nudity and shameless).
This is not only the best quality a person can provide for a relationship, but also an important factor necessary for a deep and meaningful intimate relationship.
Like everything in life, potential harm is risky, but the return is far more than the risk.
Don't take risks, take risks and become emotionally lacking, just like muscles, our emotional muscles will become weak if not used, and eventually we will live a life without love.
Research has proved that men and women are different after sex!
The study has shown that the combination of men and women before and after sex ultimately shows that when the body is intimate, kissing, holding hands, both men and women release the binding hormone-oxytocin, touch, touch, hug, hugs, but the biggest difference is that women's progesterone increases more after sex, while men's progesterone decreases significantly after sex.
A good measure of whether you have sex too early to induce emotional intimacy is to ask yourself. . .
Will you trust that the person you are going to have sex will take care of your pet dog for a weekend, feed it, walk, take care of it, OK with it?
If you can't answer absolutely yes!
You may then want to consider why you are more willing to share and give your body to someone else, but not sure they will take care of your dog!
In fact, not opinion, the couple waiting for sex has more time to figure out how trustworthy, kind, honest, caring the person is in six months.
This has nothing to do with the fact that they will be together in ten years, and it's about choosing a potential partner outside of the body.
How well they communicate with you and others, whether they are superior, arrogant, lack of sympathy and sympathy for others, animals, children, the elderly, maintain the same core values as you before powerful physical binding hormones break the mental loop of actual decision making
Manufacturing capacity!