We have the secret of best sex now.
It doesn't involve Viagra, sex toys, hard rock erection, having the perfect body, or specific location, technology, or novelty. That’s right —
You don't need to change your daily routine, buy another vibrating gadget, lose weight, take a pill, or master Kama Sutra --
Spectacular Sex style gymnastics.
Knowing what super sex is the first step in achieving it.
It turns out that when it comes to the most satisfying sexual behavior, we may have a lot to learn from our elders.
Those who have "done" for 25 years or more have eight keys to achieve unforgettable, fulfilling, amazing sex.
A recent study in the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality found that the best sex comes with relationships as relationships mature.
Participants, married couples over the age of 60, reported the following important contributions to rock star Gender: 1.
Presence, focus and embodiment.
More than any other factor is reported, lovers need to be completely absorbed in an instant and feel completely integrated. 2.
Connect, align, and sync.
The depth of the connection is essential for the experience, and as the energy of the loved ones align, they will be able to fit and sync. 3.
Intimate relationship between sex and pornography.
The basis of intimacy is intimacy, and the components of intimacy help to get the best sex.
This includes mutual concern, mutual respect, admiration and genuine acceptance of each other. 4.
Extraordinary communication and high empathy.
Lovers who achieve the best sex can read their partner's physical reactions and really feel them.
They also listen in both verbal and non-verbal ways.
The way of language, learn from small things, keep sensitive from all aspects. 5.
True, true and unrestricted, transparent.
Participants reported that the ability to emotionally naked, freely share and feel unconscious with their loved ones is critical to having better sex. 6.
Fragile and surrender
Lovers are willing to expose themselves and are really seen.
They put themselves in the hands of others, and finally put themselves in the souls of others. 7.
Bliss, transformation and healing.
Best sex is a state of sublime, affectionate, eternal awe and ecstasy. 8.
Exploration of interpersonal risktaking and fun.
Sex is an adventure, and lovers become explorers as sex becomes one of the discoveries.
Unleash your sense of humor and laughter to add to this.
So what does all this mean? —
Despite reaching a climax, you may still have bad sex.
On the other hand, you can have special sex without orgasm. —
Sexual ecstasy has nothing to do with physiological function or technical talent.
It's about feeling completely alive, at this moment --
Mind, Body and Soul. —
Sexual experience and understanding your partner will make sex better, the ideal sex comes from the heart, yes, even as you get older. —
You can still have the best sex life even though you are an elderly person, a patient with a chronic illness or a disabled person. —
The best sex is how you define it, and your mindset and intentions are important in terms of acquired satisfaction.
The researchers further pointed out that better sex is accompanied by slower and fewer goals --
Targeted sex, not all about "reaching" orgasm sex.
Contrary to the popular information in the media, you can do sex mechanically and skillfully, but not necessarily with super sex.
While we are told that "optimal" sex involves achieving a state of sexual perfection, it is actually a sexual experience that is different from your average, positive sexual engagement.
But we have always had unrealistic expectations.
Driven by technology and other factors, many couples have made great efforts.
If you commit to quick fixes and maximum results in magazine titles and articles, you end up feeling anxious, ashamed, guilty, and can't have the kind of star insecurity you "should" have.
As the researchers of the study wrote, those who are sexually fulfilling "have learned to ignore traditional performance expectations in order to listen to and take responsibility for their inner desires.
Make sure "those" include you if you want a satisfying sex. Dr. Yvonne K.
Fulbright is the founder of Sex Educators, relationship experts, columnists, and sex resources.
She is the author of several books, including touching me there! A Hands-
Guide to hot spots at your climax.
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