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2019-12-09
In the delicate area of the Quran that meets human desires, the Muslim sex therapist Heba Kotb, wearing a wrinkled golden head scarf, has a strong opinion on the vibrator, foreplay, premature you --know-
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In her clinic, for an hour, some women wore black robes that only showed their eyes, a liberating adventure that entered a tradition of putting sexual topics into the family.
Although she looks dignified, the voice of Kotb is very strong, and there is no apology in public.
She said that the Qur'an prohibits sexual behavior outside marriage, but in marriage, physical satisfaction is a necessary condition for happiness.
"I deal with happiness, desire, orgasm, masturbation, sexual frequency and erection problems," Kotb said . " His TV show "big talk" is very popular in the Arab world.
However, masturbation is not mentioned in both the Quran and the sun.
My suggestion is that masturbation is OK, but only if you need it very much.
Masturbation has become more common here because sex is prohibited outside marriage.
"In a society in which male clergy issue fatwa or religious decrees or opinions, involving all levels of family life, the female voice of something as intimate as sex makes Scott a celebrity and a cultural revolutionary.
Some conservative clerics accuse Kotb of pandering to criminals and Westerners
But on the whole, her frankness caused little protest.
Kotb's advice on sex was carefully designed in the context of marriage, and she said it was a gift from God.
"Everyone is looking for better sex, but people don't have the best sex," she said . ".
"Islamic sex is the best.
It covers the rights of men and women.
Islam is the ultimate polarity.
It goes beyond the stereotype of Islamic oppression.
I want to replace that template.
I'm going to replace those stereotypes.
"Kotb's interest in the topic stems from her conversation with sex offenders while studying for a forensic degree at Cairo University.
Later, she studied sexuality and philosophy at the University of mymenides in Florida;
Her thesis topic is sex in Islam.
She wrote a suggested column for the newspaper, which included a column called "building a car behind closed doors.
"In 2006, she started her late arrival.
Egyptian private satellite channel El Mehwar's evening TV talk show.
"I think about the core of sex and religion," she said . ".
"How many relationships can I save knowing this?
At first, there was a state of shock on TV.
People have gradually accepted it and people like it today.
I think that people know very little about their own sex besides sex.
Five years ago, I went to see two or three patients a week.
Booked three months in advance today.
"Kotb has a vivid face surrounded by a headscarf.
She wears rings and bracelets.
Her phone kept buzzing and she seemed happy with her high profile.
She merged scientific and anatomical charts with the Qur'an and the Sun, based on the teachings of the life of the Prophet Muhammad, who noted that the Prophet Muhammad took care of his wife with due diligence.
Kotb advised her audience that every one-time contact outside of marriage would leave an indelible mark, and that the accumulation of those marks would destroy a relationship and push for a relationship further from God.
But her bigger goal is to help Muslims overcome sexual ignorance and show them that centuries ago the Bible was related to today's preferences and taboos.
"It's hard for people to admit that they don't know anything about sex, especially men ---
"They think they are valentines," Kotb said . " He refers to those who are not educated in the complexity of multiple orgasms.
"Sometimes people believe they know everything, and in fact, some people are lying.
Kotb invited young missionaries to answer questions from the audience to increase the religious legitimacy of her show.
Many are part of the movement that emerged in the 1990 s, which provides less traditional explanations of Islamic theology.
In one project, Kotb and Sheik Khaled Abdullah discussed the misconception of prohibited sex during Ramadan.
"There is no correlation between how loyal you are to God and how much you avoid having sex during Ramadan," Kotb said . ".
Abdullah added: "Whenever you feel the need [to have sex]
With your wife, or when your wife feels the same according to God's rules, you can exercise this right, in a country where widespread poverty delays or prevents many couples from getting married, the economy is also a factor and you will be rewarded.
With the increase in Western influence, especially the risque music video on satellite TV, more Egyptians have sex outside of marriage.
"For us, evil things are always more interesting than good things," Kotb said . ".
"Some people use porn and sex toys.
The problem is that they can have fun from these toys and give up their partner.
But not many Egyptians use them.
In fact, there are not many Egyptians who know them.
"In a recent government report, at least 50% of 10 to 18-year-old girls in a society where genital mutilation is accepted, the prospect of vibrators and lubricants seems surreal, some call it an operation of genital circumcision, in which part or all of the clit is removed.
Other estimates indicate that 97% of Egyptian women between the ages of 15 and 49 have undergone genital mutilation.
This practice is considered to prevent promiscuity by reducing the sexual impulse of women, which was banned by Egyptian health officials in June after the death of persons under 12year-
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"I am completely against female circumcision.
"There is no religious or scientific reason," Kotb said . ".
But this does not affect sexual behavior.
A woman will keep her nerve ends.
I am against circumcision because it is part of the human body and no one has the right to cut your body. "jeffrey.
Fleishman @ latimes. com--
Special correspondent Noha El Hennawy has contributed to this report.