My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years, but we have only recently started having sex.
I can't feel him in bed.
I was not happy at all on my side, but he felt it and reached the climax.
I have never reached a climax with him, but with my former partner I will feel and reach it.
He was smoking marijuana when we started dating, but I advised him to stop using it and he was making good progress.
Is there a problem with me, or am I hiding behind and saying this is the sweetness that weeds take away that I should feel?
Jade: You have to remember that something that works with one partner may not cooperate with another.
You may need some time to adjust and adapt to the things that swing with your new loved one.
Also, explore the idea of introducing toys to stimulate your clit as your boyfriend permeates you.
Be honest with him and tell him what you want and need more in the bedroom to help you reach your climax.
Reader: I have a strong gag reflection.
Any suggestions on how to give oral sex to my partner?
Jade: If you try to put all the members of your partner in your mouth because you want to interrupt, use your hand to replenish your mouth.
Make sure he is well lubricated, remember to move your hands and mouth in the same direction.
Reader: I really need your help.
My girlfriend loves anal sex.
Is this behavior normal?
Also, it takes me a long time to ejaculate.
I used to think it was because my foreplay with my boo lasted a long time;
Could this be the reason?
Enjoying: it's normal to enjoy anal sex. there's nothing to worry about.
Be sure to use enough lubricant and protection in the form of a condom, as anal sex is at greater risk in spreading sexually transmitted diseases, because bleeding is more likely.
As for the fact that it will take you a while to reach orgasm, there are several possibilities, two of which may include the medication or supplements you are taking and your concerns about anal sex and its potential dangers.
Relax and remember to have fun.
Reader: every time we have sex, I ask my husband for a full body massage.
He is tired of all the massages.
Am I asking too much?
Jade: you can do a lot of work with full body massage. A five-
A minute of back friction and some foreplay are not a big requirement.
But maybe try to mix it together, there are other forms of foreplay that make it longer for both of you to give and accept so that he feels more included.
The massage again and again is not required at all.
Reader: I can't seem to come when my boyfriend's penis is in my vagina.
For example, I can come by myself when he squeezes his hand or arm on my vagina.
What could be the problem?
Jade: only about 25% of women will reach a climax through penetration.
You are completely normal, nothing wrong.
You reach a climax from the stress and stimulation of his hand on the clit.
He or you can stimulate the clit during penetration so that you can also reach orgasm in this way.
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