Sexual health practitioner told Roshni Nair that while attitudes towards intimacy and sexual intercourse have changed, if Kalyana Malla is still alive today, many couples will not have time to have sex and he may want to bring himself back to the 16th-century
Malla, a respected poet in the court of Ahmed Khan Lodi, wrote a paper for married couples to overcome sexual boredom.
Imagination and experiments are the glue to a happy marriage, he wrote.
Completed by 2015-
Experiment without control
This is a steep mountain for many people.
"I recommend couples take time off so they can have sex," said Dr Priyadarshini Joshi, a gynecologist . ".
"Sexual awareness, especially in cities, over time.
But the same is true of the ratio of not married.
"Partners just don't have time to be close," she said . ".
Dr. Hitesh Shah, a clinical sexologist, added that the 10-year marriage was not completed.
Documenting India's relationship with sex is a daunting feat.
After all, this is a country from prehistoric celebration of sexual activity to the worship of metaphorical chastity belts, and is now gradually returning to sexual consciousness.
If sex is the food of life, India is a Yoyo dieter.
Our contradictory attitude towards sexuality is also reflected in how many points of view the Sexology itself has.
Sexuality is a cross-discipline in psychiatry, male science, gynecology, and marriage counseling.
However, it is mistaken for a vending machine that can quickly
Repair of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, that's all.
The general mentality is that female sexual dysfunction is limited to fertility.
When you think of this, there are not many female sexologists in India, not to mention the female sexologists of Prakash Kotharis and Mahinder Watsas.
"There are very few female patients, because there are still stigma and taboos about" female sex issues "when looking at male doctors.
The psychiatrist said: "Although women claim themselves in terms of sex, even in educated classes, there is a lack of knowledge about things such as clit stimulation and multiple orgasms . "
Sexologist Dr. Rohann Bokdawala
There is little or no more understanding of sex than non-sex.
Penis penetration
But while most of his patients are male, bokdawara has a deep insight into the sexual attitude of urban women in India.
First, she is becoming more open to gender.
At least in her own circle, the illusion of fluency and talk about it.
"A woman excited by watching the same program --
The sex video became anxious because she thought she was a lesbian.
I told her it was perfectly normal.
"Women are more curious and receptive to sexual mobility than men," he said . ".
He also cited several cases where teenagers and women in their 20 s prefer to use sex toys instead of sleeping with men because they feel it is safer to do so.
For 30 years, more and more women are seeking advice for partners with erectile dysfunction, Dr. Dilip Raja said.
But there's oxygen.
While sexual discontent is becoming a reason for divorce, there is little change in the sexual act itself.
"Communication between husband and wife is not smooth, they have little adventurous spirit.
Even oral sex is limited to young couples.
Anal sex is far from-fetched.
"In a very small proportion of cases, multiple attempts to have sexual intercourse on the same day, after a certain stage of the couple's life, sex is still just an obligation," he said . ".
Dr. Priyadarshini Rao agreed.
Many elderly couples are opposed not only to oral sex, but also to pornography as a possible means to improve their sex life.
This, though some are considering options like polyamory to revive their marriage.
Despite the old couple's reservations about pornography, there are more and more pornography in India.
But one of the reasons why many women do not turn to it to improve their sex life compared to male partners is that most of the reasons are --
Dr Anuradha Bakshi, head of Human Development Department, School of Family Sciences, Nirmala Niketan, believes that heterosexual pornography is as high as 85
Strengthening the concept that women are objects.
Despite the choice of "women"
Friendly Porn (does this make normal porn male)friendly').
The sexual liberation of young Indian cities may be in progress, but this liberation can take off only if the collective mentality is not only in India, but also when the world changes.
Dr. Bakshi takes our vocabulary as an example.
"Look at how the female sex organs are mentioned.
The label of a female sex organ is a derogatory dirty word.
"Any coward is p * y, and anyone with the guts has a" big ball ".
Then there are derogatory terms like c * t.
Bakshi also pointed out a lot.
On the double standard of slut-Humiliation vs stud
Worship is the overflow of the patriarchal system.
While it will take a long time for real gender equality to be achieved, we can at least nip the misconceptions in the bud.
For example, the belief that "the old man cannot have sex.
Gynecologist Sudha Marwah emphasizes post-menopause
If problems such as pain and dryness are corrected with lubricants and estrogen creams, menopausal women are able to have a good sex life.
Older men can remain active despite male suspension
Treatment with testosterone replacement therapy
Erectile dysfunction can be treated by oral tablets, penis injections, and even penis implants, Dr. Raja said.
Dr. Rohann Bokdawala said that our government must also actively advocate sex education in schools and abolish the outdated article 377.
More importantly, given that there is little understanding and acceptance of the sex life of LGBT people.
"In fact, they are the most comfortable and blunt about their sexual desires, talking about sexual health and other issues.
He pointed out that "there are a lot more people than 'direction . "
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