Ian Kenner is a sex consultant and the best in the New York Times
Sales author, chart last Thursday's blog.
Read more on his website. Porn, schmorn.
I don't care what anyone says, any day of the week, it's better to have sex with a real person than porn.
In bed, we think porn is equivalent to professional wrestling: False and superficial.
Like living on garbage.
When you can have a good meal, you can have the bear and Gatorade.
But when you live in la vida loca, there is not always time to have a balanced meal, and for many men porn is here.
Easy, lazy, fun, oh yeah, it's right there.
It's always there-
Even if we don't want.
I estimate that men masturbate 50 to 500% more often than men who do not have internet porn.
So if a man usually masturbates once a day, he may now masturbate two or three times a day.
If he masturbates three times a week, he may now draw with graphics 15 times a week.
Ian, Joey Bihar, someone else is talking about you on the Internet when you're 17 and single, which may not be a problem.
But if you're 40 and have the courage, it's a problem --a real issue.
Some people may still feel mentally that they are 17 years old, but they can't have sex like that.
Their bodies have changed and their refractory period has also changed, which is the natural interval between erection.
Therefore, women today face more sexual satisfaction challenges than ever before.
More and more men suffer from what I call sexual attention deficit disorder.
Just as people who really have add-ons are easily distracted, men with SADD are used to the high level of visual novelty and excitement that internet porn offers, so much so that they can't focus on the act of authenticity with real women.
Men with SADD tend to find themselves bored or impatient when having sex and suffer from mechanical "men-
Function ": they may be physically awakened or even erect, but they do not reach the peak of spiritual awakening.
People with SADD may also lose the magic of real sex because of masturbation.
They are not running on a complete tank, physically, mentally, and of course not sexually.
This is a serious situation, and there is no sign of any change in this new erotic world order.
My guess is that in terms of the various ways porn will change our love life, we just see the tip of the iceberg.
Porn is not just a problem, or a problem, or a quick release, it's part of a major shift in our sexual mindset.
Just as the sexual revolution has led to "sexual happiness", "Sex and City" has led to the mainstream of rabbit vibrators, and my prediction is that cyber pornography will affect everything in our sex life.
Good or bad-
And it doesn't have to be worse.
After all, masturbation is a healthy activity.
When a couple has a good relationship, they are actually more likely to masturbate than when they are not.
Masturbation is not something we can do just because we "don't get anything --
This is what we do because it is human health.
In fact, this is often a bad sign when people stop masturbating: it may mean they are depressed or have health problems.
With this in mind, there is no problem with pornography in a healthy relationship.
When couples share pornographic content together, this can make them more excited about each other's sexual behavior and become a strong intimate experience.
Pornography is also a healthy way to explore taboos.
Fantasy is fantasy for a reason.
Because they're not real.
Porn provides a place to explore things you can't usually explore.
People should not be judged as porn they like, and there is not always a direct relationship between what we look at and what we really want to try.
Of course, this is also uncomfortable for a woman who cares about the use of pornography by her male partner.
She may have a lot of questions about her man's porn use: whether he likes something very odd, whether he wants me to look different, whether I should perform, etc.
In fact, a person usually does not think of these things.
He's just enjoying some porn, that's all.
But if these issues of silence accumulate over time, they can really damage a relationship.
Once a couple starts talking about pornography, it's a stimulus to their relationship --
Share Fantasy, talk about good and evil, etc.
Also, it's not hard to remember that there was a time before porn, or at least when it's not so easy for ordinary people to access porn.
Of course, people watch magazines or videos.
But they also rely on their imagination and their erotic memories.
This is one of the biggest downsides of porn for me.
So consider taking a break from porn and making your imagination your guide --
You might be surprised where it will take you.
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This guy's just setting his agenda.
His opinion is not based on any data.
Just because I'm alone outside doesn't mean he can be with his lover as well.
Not to mention health studies show that if a person takes it at least once a day, he should take it at least 5 times a week.
Unless he has multiple partners, it won't happen unless he does it himself.
So I suggest this person look at the medical journal again and stop B. S. ing us.
I have always thought that SADD is against drunk driving on behalf of students.
It sounds much better! Love it.
I'm 26 years old. o.
Who thinks it's great!
This is completely a male question/question, as it is written on the main page? ?
I love Ian Kona!
I have his book.
I'm a man. I don't look at Pulong.
If there is only one, there is one.
If only the women behave like the stars rn stars, then there is no need for p0rn, there will be no. Oh. .
Please clean the house, cook dinner and cold beer. Yes. .
You can go shopping. .
This is some money.
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Must be left hand. . . . . . married 17 yrs.
My husband and I are healthy.
We appreciate each other and respect each other.
We like each other.
It seems to be useful to us.
We don't despise others because they have children, and we don't attack another gender because of aging or just being.
We don't need to reduce one to make more. and. . . . .
We still enjoy our s * x.
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