The question came from a reader who asked: Hopefully, I am a 25 year old man who likes to wear underwear and underpants under my clothes.
I can't order things online because I currently live with two university partners who regularly browse my emails.
I prefer Victoria's Secret lingerie and underwear collection, but I would also like to try it on before buying it.
Thank you very much for any suggestions or comments.
This is a big problem, and there is no doubt that it is related to many men wearing underwear.
First of all, let me say that fitting on underwear should not really be necessary depending on the type of underwear you purchased.
Underwear in particular, no need to try it on as long as you know your size.
Bra is a pot of different fish, because not only does bra need more precise fit than underwear, but bra manufacturers often make bras according to completely different standards, so many, so that 32 a of one brand is likely to be 30 B of another brand.
However, by reading my letters and many comments, many said they had no problem trying bras in department stores, even in Victoria's Secret.
Although it may take some courage to ask a sales assistant, the report shows that most of them are helpful.
It is very difficult if you want to try on underwear before buying, if not impossible.
The biggest help you can do may be to know your size.
Measure the location of the chest and bra.
Know what size your clothes are
This problem can be easily solved using a wide range of online size drawings.
If you know your size and the size of your clothes, it will be much easier to buy underwear online and offline.
Regarding not wanting to buy underwear online, I would suggest that you tell your roommate GTFO your email or arrange for your underwear to be delivered elsewhere.
Your workplace is not a good place to receive underwear, even if the eyes of the spy do get the wind inside, you can claim that this is for the girlfriend, in fact, most people simply assume this without even asking you.
At the end of the day, buying underwear can be discrete, but it's not a crime either, or something you should feel forced to hide.
Most people don't ask you why you buy underwear, and among those who buy underwear you have the option to tell them the truth (
Many people who read and comment here seem particularly happy to do so ,)
Or you can simply tell them it's for a partner.
Enjoy your underwear, enjoy your life, and don't worry too much about other people's thoughts.
Chances are, the salesperson who looks at your antics is more worried about how fat she looks in her sales pants, or how messy her hair is, than what you buy and what you buy it.