Dear Deidre has had good sex with my girl until she bought a vibrator.
Even though it hurts my confidence, she has sex with another man in front of me.
I am 29 years old and in good health and good work. although I admit that my penis is just ordinary, I have always been a confidant.
My girlfriend, who is 27 years old, confessed to me very early that most of her former people were more talented than me.
But she said I made up for it with foreplay and oral sex.
We're in love. this is the most important thing. or did.
We went to Amsterdam for the weekend last month.
We went to a sex shop and she bought an Arab vibrator.
Later, when we had sex, it looked very big.
She never had a climax with me.
But within minutes of using her toy, hey presto!
We used to have sex every time we met and now I can't be opened even if she stands naked in front of me.
I made up any excuse to avoid this.
I only had her eyes before.
But now, if a good
I think I will be tempted.
I even wanted to call one of my ex.
No one complains that my figure and sex are always good.
I know it's painful that I lost my girl.
DEIDRE said: You are obviously a thoughtful lover and your girlfriend may not know how much you will be threatened.
If you are happy together before, don't let an injured self destroy your relationship.
The advantage of rabbit vibrators is that they stimulate the clit while simulating sexual intercourse.
You can also do this with a little bit of ingenuity or a change of position.
A suggested line today explains the effective position of sex, but do not ban the vibrator.
Instead of making her feel like she has to enjoy it secretly, use it as part of your shared experience.
Dear Deidre, I enjoyed it when my boyfriend touched my underwear.
But when he touched me below, it hurt a few seconds later.
He was 26 and I was 19 but never reached a climax.
It's hard for me to relax.
Lubrication helps-then he can touch me longer.
But I finally let him stop.
Sexual intercourse is OK.
He was very supportive but frustrated.
We're talking about a very sensitive area and his touch may be a bit too heavy, DEIDRE said.
In terms of sex, men tend to be treated more severely than women.
Let him imagine he is working on a bird and give him feedback to help him handle it properly.
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Flyers for female orgasm and foreplay to help both of you.
Dear DeidreMY husband stayed at home when I was full of work-
Time, but now he does nothing but take the child to school and collect the child.
He's 40, I'm 38, we have a teenage daughter and seven-year-
This is a busy family life.
My husband says he has been feeling uncomfortable all the time, but he has done a lot of tests that are clear.
I was tired, washed, ironed, cleaned, and did my homework with the children.
When I said we had to separate, he said he would take all his pills and it would be my fault.
Don't let yourself be blackmailed, but he's obviously frustrated and that needs to be addressed, DEIDRE said.
Show some interest in his happiness.
Go to see the GP with him and ask him to recommend a consultation.
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Leaflets on depression
If your husband refuses, make it clear whether it's like this or breaking up.
At home, sit down and list every chore, write down who will do it, and give a lot of positive feedback on everything he does.
Dear Deidre, I love women at work, but she loves men with money --
This is my league.
I'm 23 and she's 30.
We chat, it seems to click.
I like everything about her and I think she likes me.
But she told me that she likes rich men and that her last boyfriend was a pilot.
If that's what she does, there's no hope.
She probably earns more than I do.
I still live at home, she told me, but I went to college and traveled for a year.
I am independent except that there is no place of my own.
Should I strike up a conversation?
It's one thing to be a friend and romance is another, DEIDRE said.
It sounds like you are at a different stage of your life.
Let her refuse you if you ask her out.
Your hopes may be dashed if you want to commit.
It's better to find someone who is in the same place as you.
Deair Deidre my husband and I have told family and friends that we are separating but everyone is disapproving because we have children.
We are 26 and 29 years old, 18 months married, two boysanine-month-old and five-year-old.
We always quarrel, but we never really quarrel.
Our marriage was good, but we had a problem with the bedroom from the beginning.
It's always boring-
He fell asleep once.
I tried to spice him up but he refused.
At the end of the last pregnancy, he said he did not have another child and I bullied him.
Things got worse after birth and I moved into the spare bedroom three months ago.
He said he still likes me but doesn't like me and I don't want to go to bed with him either.
Our parents were frightened when we said we were going to separate.
Should I try again?
DEIDRE said: it must be worth a try.
18 months ago, you thought your relationship was strong enough to get married.
Try to solve what is wrong.
Does your husband feel you are pregnant without fully consulting him?
Is he under pressure on sex?
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