I had a live chat on February about why sex is important.
There are so many participants and there are many remaining problems.
There are only a few here.
Q: My boyfriend for two years is a great person, but I am not interested in sex.
He is very successful and works hard for a long time and then needs to exercise or some hard physical activity to release the tension.
He rarely has time to be alone.
We either went out with a group of friends or he fell asleep.
He said don't worry about our sex life.
When we are more stable, there will be enough time.
We had good sex, but sometimes it wasn't great sex, just didn't have enough time to make it more satisfying.
Is this as important as I love him? A: It matters.
When it comes to passion, if you haven't experienced it yet --
No early stages of kids and mortgages, so when?
His theory that sex can wait is self.
Focus on his interests and ignore your thoughts and feelings.
Also, since he did not release regularly, he did not experience the chemical effect (oxytocin)
Scientists have proved that this climax will make him a more loving and emotional partner for you.
Art Markman of the University of Texas said: "the happiest couples are often the best couples who have sex.
"If you don't increase sexual contact right now, you'll be at home alone when he's looking for more sports and work than intimacy.
Q: My sexual impulse is higher than my wife and she says she can't change.
I hate it, then get angry, and then she gets angry and says I get alienated even though I get angry inside.
Why did she call the sex schedule?
If it's important to me, isn't it important to her? A: Yes.
For people with lower sexual desire or those with higher sexual desire, it is wrong and unfair to call the shots.
It is crucial that the two sides reach a compromise.
Both of you can change.
If one of you insists there is nothing to discuss, then this is a game of thrones saying that there are some very wrong things in this relationship.
But before you think you're completely innocent here, consider: the issue could be a request from a sexual partner, a threat to take it elsewhere, a tantrum, etc.
Or, again, the mistake is that the low-level people who are stubborn or cold will disappear --
If either or both of these descriptions apply to you or your wife, you should be consulted together and try to have a conversation with the therapist's guidance --
Let's say you want to be together.
Q: Recently, I have been under more and more pressure because I lost my job and we have difficulty paying bills.
Even though my husband is not affected by this, I can't seem to get rid of the sexual concerns.
The extra stress, he says, is more of a reason we need to have sex, and it's a release, but what does that help if I can't get involved?
There is an old saying. try it. you will like it.
Well, maybe you were too nervous at first.
But staying nervous and anxious won't solve the funding problem sooner.
In contrast, relax and restore a good feeling in your life --
Like a lover.
Can give you more energy and confidence, which is what you need to find a job and get through this difficult period.
Tips for everyday life couples need to talk openly about their attitudes towards sex as they feel about their lifestyle.
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