What is Swinger's life like?
Source: Christy and Mark Kidd are available on New Year's Eve 2005-
Lived in New York for six years but still lonely
Found an advertisement for all the people in time. you-can-drink bash.
Despite some questionable details, including the location of the clothing area, family music and the $100 entrance fee, they went.
Red dirty environment everywhere
Velvet curtains and wet air.
In the hallway they saw an empty room with a wall hanging. to-Wall mattress.
"It's a relatively normal party," Mark said . "
"Except that we realized that everyone in the back room was having sex. They want to go in.
This is longer than you think.
Their new book, Modern Marriage, records the lives of Christie and Mark as swing men: collective sex, jealousy, secrecy, sexually transmitted diseases and health issues, emotional and psychological dangers
"The whole situation caught us off guard --
"Guard," said Christie.
"We are naive," Mark said . "
Mark and Christian Kidd have maintained an open relationship for many years.
Source: supply Christy is now 43; Mark is 42.
They are native Texans who claim to be square: a conservative accountant who lives in Kips Bay, and his favorite drink is Dr. Pepper, who doesn't know what constitutes a carnival.
All had an unstable childhood.
Christie's mother has been married five times. Mark’s, four —
They said they spent a lifetime looking for a stable relationship they shared.
They have been married for 14 years and they insist that the swing makes their marriage stronger.
"This is a love story," Christie said . "“We’re normal.
We have the same problem as others.
Until today, none of their friends or family knew
But they say it's time to share it all.
"We are by no means trying to make people swing, but there is another way of life that can be amazing," Mark said . ".
"I think we can change people's lives.
At the first swing party in 2005, Christy and Mark reacted with disgust and excitement.
The book was written in her voice.
They are worried that the man's opinion is "too creepy ".
Christy wrote that seeing naked women lined up against a wall, there was a little man who looked like an elf . . . . . . Belt [ing]
One woman and one woman reached a climax.
"Attendees who don't have sex squat next to the mating couple to get a better look.
Christy wrote: "It's an impious mess where men and women are crawling around.
Mark recalled their different reactions.
"We were blown away and completely opened and we wanted to explore more," he said.
"Men and women" climb everywhere, climb down each other ".
Source: The Australian News Corp. (News Corp. ) they only watched the party, but when they got home they only talked about it.
They decided to buy it the next morning.
Nevertheless, they put forward some rules, including: no.
2. we will only do this when it is interesting. No.
8: Never have sex in front of others.
They will find it easier to write these rules than to keep them. Couple No.
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They made an appointment to see Frank and Wendy.
The children changed all their names)
A dive bar in Hell's Kitchen
They don't want to meet anyone they might know.
When Frank and Wendy showed up, they were shocked and looked 15 years older than their profile photos.
But Frank and Wendy are willing to bring it up.
"As a virgin, you probably don't want to do a full swap when you go out for the first time," Wendy said . ".
Christie and Mark don't know what that means.
"The Complete Swap is for each other, including penetration," she said. Intercourse.
Wendy suggested they start with a "soft swap --everything but.
Despite their lack of attraction, Christy and Mark agreed to meet Frank and Wendy at a cheap motel in Long Island;
They worry that no one will exchange with them.
They meet for an appointment next Friday.
They had dinner in the motel room and then all stripped of their underwear.
No trace of self
Consciousness, Wendy went to the lobby to retrieve her belongings.
On the bag, then open a pile of sex toys.
"We didn't go there," Christy said . ".
"If I use one, I want to make sure it is disinfected properly.
Kristie and Mark went away dressed.
They can't let themselves have any physical contact with these two people.
They did not hesitate to buy a bigger bed for their apartment and began to visit the sex club again.
Despite the harsh environment, Christy says people from all walks of life are involved: surgeons, lawyers, brokers, network meteorologists.
However, neither Christie nor Mark has ever met such people.
Next is Ken and Lana.
One night, Lana was furious at Ken for losing his job at a local car dealer.
Then aluminum-
He and his wife, a manicurist.
But when Mark couldn't perform, the angry manicurist left.
When he got home, Mark was very upset and slammed the front door in front of Christie.
"Poor guy," she wrote . "
"I don't think I ever felt sorry for my husband like I did that night.
Mark soon got the prescription for Cielo.
At the club and at the gathering, he changed his Dr. Pepper to Red Bull and vodka and would definitely splash water on Kenneth colcologne.
Back on the wall a few weeks laterto-
Mattress room on the wall, they were with someone who looked like Derek Jette and his girlfriend.
Christy wrote: "All four of us were having sex before we knew what was going on.
"They are sure they are the most reliable couple on site and there is nothing or no one can separate them.
"Lovers and life partners can be f-k others, but still remain in faith," Christy wrote . ".
"As for sexually transmitted diseases, they say they have never heard of anything that can be infected by the swing.
"What else is safer? ” Mark says.
"Do singles hook up at bars or sex parties?
Source: David KellySource: The news is gradually restricted and the boundaries are erased.
One night Christy found himself alone in the living room, wearing headphones, watching the "bad" episode of her husband and another man --
Who slept with Christy and had enough-tag-teamed a 19-year-
The old girl in their bedroom
One night Christy fainted while having sex with a stranger.
As she approached, she heard "mark, let's go! Go, Kate!
Then followed them to the room where her husband had sex and a group of people were cheering for them.
The humiliated Christie joined the cheering line.
"Only a few times I feel jealous is overwhelming," Christy said . ".
"I really have --
I don't want to say suck-
But it's tough.
"In December 2007, they started the most important exchange of their lives on a trip home to visit their families in Austin.
Mark called his old man.
School friend Brett likes to suggest that his wife Terry is really wild.
There are rumors that they are building a love room in their new home.
Four people meet at a karaoke bar in a strip mall.
Terri talked about her keels and Mark asked them if they wanted a room.
They exchanged partners that night.
Christy and Mark felt connected to Brett and Terri on a deeper level and they started twiceyear-
The swing relationship of long term "loyalty": Christie's date with Brett, Mark's date with Terry.
They are very far away from New York, so it is very common in New York.
Austin flight and vice versa;
The new couple will leave in a few hours or even days and do their own thing.
Brett and Terry have an 8. year-
Old daughter Tiffany, even though the kids will stay at home
Tiffany exchanged at home.
The girl never had any ideas, Mark said.
"We are very careful about any PDAs in front of her," he said . ".
Gradually, the boundaries were erased.
Things about suppliers quickly become complicated.
Mark and Terry are in love.
So did Brett and Christie.
Christy finds himself more jealous of what Mark and Terri have shared --
Go to museums and Broadway
Closer than their bodies.
Mark felt the same way: when he saw the video of Christie and Brett parachuting together, he had to leave the room.
"This is disturbing.
"They look very close," Mark said . ".
Nevertheless, he denied the sustainability of the four-person group.
"We didn't realize it became sick as before," he said . ".
Christie and Mark decided to have a baby. They were so paranoid.
At first, Terri became more and more distant.
When Christie first started
In vitro fertilization therapy, text and electronicsmails dwindled.
Christie finally got pregnant, but had a miscarriage six weeks later.
Brett was the first to crack.
Seeing Terry and Mark's arms on the Empire State Building observation deck, Brett ran to the gift shop and began trying to rip off his hair.
Terri announced she was going to divorce Mark.
Christie said it was impossible.
"I really laughed a little," she said . ".
Her carefree attitude
Whether it is genuine or puton —was short-lived.
Terri went missing for two weeks.
Brett and Mark worked hard.
"We were all dumped by Terry," Mark said . ".
Meanwhile, Brett kept calling Christie.
Everyone is jealous of the rest of the quartet.
"It's a bit disturbing for me because Brett is more obsessed with Terri than I am," Christy said . ".
"I think he said a lot to me about his feelings for her.
I was jealous that he was upset because Terry and Mark were exchanging feelings.
I know it's hypocritical, but I can't help it.
Meanwhile, Brett and Terry's injured daughter Tiffany secretly called the children.
"It's very emotional for us," Christy said . ".
She wants to talk to a stable person.
Brett and Terry are divorced.
Then Mark broke off with Brett.
"Mark has to do this because I am very committed to this relationship," Christy said . ".
"It's hard to cut him off.
Today, Christie and Mark are still happy swing-ers.
They all tend to live in the moment, which may explain why they don't think much about the potential impact of this book or this article.
Maybe it's because they insist that there is no harm to the swing, it doesn't have any negative effects at all.
"It will definitely improve the quality and intimacy of sex between me and Christie," Mark said . ".
"It won't dilute our sex life.
"They also say that seeing strangers want their spouse gives them an incredible sense of identity.
They know not everyone will look like this.
"My mom might stop talking to me for the time being," Mark said . ".
"We are doing something that she thinks is immoral.
"I think my mom will be shocked, but I don't think she will judge us," Christy said.
Mark, a fashion designer, said a Superior had found the book online a few months ago but had no impact.
Christie, who has just worked for a few months, says her new employer is not aware.
"I'm not ashamed of this book or what we do," she said . ".
It is incredible that they all insist that they have never been unfaithful to each other.
"We do it together," Christy said . ".
"I don't need to cheat him or be outside of marriage.
"If all couples do this, there will be less infidelity in the world," Mark said . ".
"I have an exit if I need it.
There is no reason to cheat.
"As for the future, they want to adopt their children one day, and Christy says they are willing to interrupt for a while.
But they will never give up forever.
"As long as we can, we will," Mark said . ".
"I can't think of life without it.
"In their new book, Christie and Mark Kidd, there are eight rules that list the eight rules they put forward before they start swinging: 1.
Wherever this journey takes us, near or far, we take every step together. 2.
It's only when it's interesting that we do it. 3.
The price paid is worth it. 4. No pressure! 5. Protection (condoms). 6.
In any case, equality is natural for us. 7. Pace ourselves. 8.
Maintain purity (
Never have sex in front of others).