The name "sex toy" sounds dirty, doesn't it?
It sounds abnormal, like something nobody should talk about.
Something can be placed in the dark adult store of k'rd and Cuba St;
Never see the light of the day.
If you have been to these adult stores, you will know that they are not black or dirty at all.
They are bright and approachable and they are filled with the friendliest staff I think you will find in retail.
There are naturally many sex toys in these stores, and no one will be judged.
No matter what you like, there will be a toy inside for you, and if you are too shy to hand over your Eftpos card in exchange for a little meat, the online range will be even bigger --coloured fun.
However, sex toys are still taboo in modern society.
We are taught to bury them in drawers by the bed, and not even among friends, to talk about them in public.
It's also a situation where I think the shame of men is worse than women-TV shows like Sex and the city make it better to talk about female vibrators 20 years ago, however, for a man, it's still annoying to have some kind of realistic sex toy.
There is no doubt that this is a double standard without recognition.
Why are we so smug toys?
The main reason is that anyone who uses sex toys will do so because they "don't get it" elsewhere ".
It seems that having such a tool is the last resort, because sexual encounters in real life are not in their reality: they are lonely people and losers;
Too unattractive for reality.
Sex life.
This is inseparable from the facts.
The design of sex toys can be used both for lovers and for individual use.
They don't imply that you can't "go to bed" elsewhere, but are based on your personal high sexual maturity of the complexity that makes you happy.
Sex toys are also stigmatized because we give them the meaning of "crawling.
This means that the person who owns these toys-especially the man-is seen as an overkill.
Just as their values are inconsistent with the values of the "regular" society.
We will also be ashamed of sex toys because they will make us no longer men or women.
Having a person means that you are not worthy or unjust as a person, just as you are a traitor.
I may not need to remind everyone that Steven Joyce threw a 2016 incident at him for a long time.
In this protest action, I think the offending items used were chosen in order to make the victims feel the most embarrassed, because obviously, nothing is worse than a man being hit on his face by another man's penis.
Especially in terms of men and sex toys, we are once again facing problems between toxic men and sex.
Typical male ideals-some of them strong and powerful men who don't need help, who can get whatever they want, and so on-support the stigma of sexual toy ownership here.
Other men and women think that a man with a sex toy is weak and somehow not as good as other men.
Even women who use sex toys themselves may be shocked because they know that their male partners will consider doing so-as if it has a slight effect on the quality of their sexual relationships, or their partner is some sort of "geek ".
However, a 2010 study in the Journal of sexual and marital therapy is promising, with 43 findings.
The heterosexual male used the vibrator. Ninety-
The men did this in the foreplay with their partner, and 82 men did so as part of sexual intercourse. As for non-
Male straight 49 years old
8% of people used sex toys.
All of this shows that many people think they are something that makes a couple more intimate than something that is further separated.
More interestingly, the fact from the statistical brain research center is that New Zealand has the highest percentage of vibrators in the world. Thirty-
Eight out of New Zealand, regardless of gender.
So why is it time to cancel
Dirty sex toys and get into them?
First of all, it is clear that others have already done so;
It's just that nobody is talking about it.
Sex toys are tools to promote physical awareness and even sexual health-not only is it safe to use them, but people who use them are more likely to participate in sexual health --
According to Indiana University, promote activities such as being examined by STI.
If these reasons are not enough to buy a sex toy for yourself-if you are not the half of the sex toy we already have-I don't know what it is.
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