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This article is published in 12/11/2016 (932 days ago)
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Dear Miss LONELYHEARTS: I have an itchy suitcase full of sex supplies and toys.
My new lover doesn't like it. She suspects (rightly)
I collected a lot of collections during my wedding, right in front of her.
She thought we should get rid of the box and buy a new one and start over.
What do you think? —
St. owner of a large collection of sex toys
Important dear owner of a large collection of sex toys: not much cleaning and disinfection will take away the bad feeling that you use these things with your exwife.
Your new girlfriend will have unwanted impressions of you and her ex.
You can think of it as a waste of money, but it's an argument that you can't win with logic and practicality.
It's about her being turned off.
If you are smart, you will throw things away completely and buy new ones for both of you.
Shop together at the Love store and choose the items you both like.
Dear Miss Lang hearts heart: I met the most amazing people in the world nine years ago.
I married him six years ago.
No sexual or physical attraction at first
He is short, his hair is gone, and he has a beer belly, but his ability to listen, talk, laugh and share is great.
He is passionate about his beliefs and keeps his promise. he is a hard-working person and has a good time working hard in the yard.
He is interested in what kind of person I am.
He is sincere, honest and respectful to me.
He first approached me mentally and emotionally, winning my sexual desire.
He has moral and values.
He is the kind of person I want to grow old.
I want him to be as happy as I am.
We had a great sex life.
He has now become lazy, dishonest and rude.
His first priority is to be with his friends.
He hangs out at the bar six days a week, plays billiards, or helps one of his friends do something they need to do.
Before he and his friends are over, he no longer goes home and his friends can be anywhere from 6 to 11m.
He no longer keeps his word, when he does not do what I ask him to do (
For example, change a light bulb a year)
He said I was nagging, but he still wanted sex with passion.
I am a fool because I believe the person I met for the first time is still on him and will come back to me one day? —
Hope, Winnipeg dear hope: something is missing from this story.
What happened in the middle and started this downward spiral?
You mentioned that his current focus is on friends and bars.
Did he reduce the habit of drinking before meeting you and then recover again?
Try to get him to consult with you and see if you can get from this 180-
Change in degree behavior
How long has he been bad to you?
Is there an emergency?
Sadly, good people are more likely to be tricks than bad people.
Do you think that good man is an actor?
After your initial reluctance, he took on a challenge to win you in terms of sex and bind you with him?
He may be a "hunter" and once he catches the woman, the challenge is over and he becomes uninterested.
Even if he does change back, do you really want him if he flips? Slippers like this?
Dear Miss langyxin: my husband
Former musician
Turn off his hearing aid when he wants some privacy, which means when he and I are alone in the house.
I was going out the other day and as usual he didn't wear a hearing aid so I walked into the room where he was reading and said, "Goodbye dear.
I'm going out for a day and a night with my girlfriend and going to a concert.
See you later.
He could not hear me, but he said, "Yes, my dear.
"I recorded it on my phone.
He was frantically ready to call the police when I got home.
I played the voice I told him and his "yes dear" response.
He said I couldn't threaten him like that.
How can I reply?
I can't continue to live the way he treats me and I have to teach him some lessons. —
That's enough. DearFed: teach him something?
He's not a kid at school.
Instead, find out the real reason why he shut you out.
Are you a talker? Are you talking to someone in the house all the time?
If so, you can agree to reduce the situation and talk to him when you are in the room with him.
Then he has to promise to leave his hearing aid for most of the time.
If he does this in retaliation for your real or imaginary mistake, the consultation will make this public.
If he just likes the feeling of being closed, in his own small world, maybe he becomes more introverted and feels that he no longer needs to keep his appearance. Or —
Sorry to say that.
Maybe he's just tired of marriage, which is the way he ends his marriage in a negative aggressive way.
Is this going to shock you?
How much have you invested in each other's love in recent years?
Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach @ hotmail.
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