Until now, in Nigeria, it is a cultural taboo for women to demand sexual satisfaction.
Although the media is filled with pictures of sexual cues, explicit lyrics, and vulgar dance moves, many women have grown up with a socially conservative attitude that "good girls" just don't talk about sex.
But Iheoma Obibi is leading a mini
Bedroom revolution in West African countries.
As she travels to London every year, she receives requests from her friends to buy sex toys and become the country's first retailer of sex care and pornography.
"They asked me to buy the vibrator, the nipple suction cup, the lubricant, the water --
Non-base lubricant
Seasoning, especially the pH balance of the female genitals.
"Realizing that there is a niche market, the former developer built her online store five years ago.
It's not easy at first-
She had to build a client while repelling critics.
She needs police protection.
But fortunately, this is something of the past, and she is now serving mainly women between the ages of 20 and 70 and some men.
MS Obibi also offers sex education and awareness courses online under hashtag # Sextalk.
For anyone with questions or curiosity about how to find their own G-
Explain where the orgasm is, and even suggest poses.
"Part of the problem that we generally face in Nigeria and Africa is that women are ashamed to negotiate their sexual pleasure," she said . ".
"We are told that you have to save money for your marriage and be a virgin.
When you get married, you meet your husband there.
"No one really told you that you were there for any pleasant satisfaction.
You were told that you had sex for birth.
"Learn more, but now some women are talking to their partners and the sex aids market is growing in Nigeria.
Men's responses are not always positive, and some are skeptical, ridiculed, angry, and sometimes disgusted with this sexual openness.
Or is this an arrogant question and do not want to admit that they have never reached the right place with their wife or girlfriend?
Sex is not strange.
Toy sellers admit that many customers buy and use aids in secret.
Some women who pursue sexual pleasure, when looking forward to negative reactions, will get this satisfaction in other ways.
Some turned to the work of professional statistician Chioma Ogwuegbu who worked hard to write
A core erotic novel in spare time.
She contributed to the Nigerian porn site and she and other writers were unable to keep up with the needs.
Ogwuegbu MS did not apologize for the article, and some may say the article borders on soft porn.
"This is not intellectual exercise.
"I'm not trying to win the Nobel Prize," she said . "
"The first story I posted on this site is one of the best.
It has the highest click-through rate.
What impressed me with this story is that it focuses on the joy of women.
"It's about the woman who has a climax.
These fictional stories depict fantasies that many Nigerian women can only imagine.
She said that the main attraction is content for women over the age of 30 who have a higher degree of sexual maturity.
"As I became more sexually conscious, my decisions about sex and sex actually became more comfortable and able to have them and say, 'Okay, I made love, it's okay, sexual desire and pleasure are not crimes.
"For JB Macauley, a man in his 60 s, I talked to him at a social club in Lagos, acknowledging that women's needs may be something that the younger generation will take easy.
"I can believe that young people are more experimental --
"We are just the arrival of sexual darkness, but we will get there," he said . ".
His young friend agreed: "We have the same sexual habits and circumstances since we were young, but I think our generation is prepared to be a little more flexible.
"Ms. Obibi is aware that this view may be a minority.
But at least one new customer calls her every day to ask about the products she sells and how they bring sexual satisfaction.
Many of her clients are still in a relationship and it is not even possible to consider discussing or negotiating a simple contact --
Not to mention a new position.
"Unfortunately, it came very, very late for many women --
Realize that their body can bring happiness to them.