CANTON, OH—
Although he is excited about the upcoming sexual freedomfor-all, first-
Jerry bear, 33, an organizer of the time spree, admitted on Monday that planning the event was a logistical nightmare.
"You don't know what I 've been through in the last few weeks," Belsner said . ".
"There's everything that could go wrong.
But I was determined to turn it into the best carnival ever.
If I see it alive, that's it.
Belsner said complications began soon after he began planning a carnival scheduled for April 26 at his home.
"I wasn't naive enough to think that the carnival was just 'happy', so I started calling," Belsner said . ".
"I was going to take all the costs on my own, but when I started thinking about everything we needed --
Snacks, wine, handcuffs, condoms, lubricants, porn videos, anal beads, vibrator batteries, notesN-Slide—
Obviously, my wallet will be hit hard.
So now I have to chase everyone down and try to get them out a little cash.
"Many of Bear's headaches are due to the difficulty of adapting to the various sexual flavors of the participants.
"Randy doesn't want Poros to play because he feels they will be distracted," said Bear . ".
"But Phil said he wouldn't get tough without one.
Do I have two rooms? One has a door, the other has no door.
Karen wants a die-hard carnival.
Mark wants only the girl's sex. on-
Girl or soft core.
I can have a bunch of different rooms, but if you spread everyone too thin, it ends up being a bunch of separate two roomsand three-
Not a huge festival.
"I intend to put a tarp in a room so that people can refuel each other without damaging my carpet," continued bear . ".
But do I put the tarp in a porn room or in another room?
Why must mass groups be so complicated?
"One aspect of the carnival Belsner regret the change is the theme.
Originally Roman.
The toga event, which was converted into a Mexican theme to indulge bear na's fascination with naked women in sombloos.
"I'm too stupid," he said . "
"Mexican food is not great for the carnival: no one wants to lick salsa from someone's private.
But I 've spent two nights taking pictures on the invite nude photos, so I can't quit right now.
"Another complicated thing is to pick adult toys for this event.
"I think I should have a few straps.
"On dildos and some vibrators," said Bear . ".
"I want people to have as much fun as possible, but I only have a silk scarf and a vibrating butt stopper.
Do I ask people to bring their own things?
I 'd rather have the guest come fucking, but it would be nice to have toys to walk around.
Maybe I can find a place to rent butterflies.
Swing and then decorate one like a pinata.
Belsner said that while there has been "a lot of pressure", he expects his anxiety to increase as the carnival day approaches.
"I don't know when I'll find the time to clean up and set everything up," Belsner said . ".
"My boss asked me to go to Columbus for a meeting on Wednesday.
How can I tell him, 'Sorry, I'm going to have a carnival '?
When it all started, Tony ·[Rusan]and Nate [Farris]
I said they would help, but they did nothing but buy a cheap sex doll that I might have to blow up myself.
Another growing concern is thatfemale ratio.
The carnival is now heavily biased towards men, said bear.
"Ideally, I would like two girls for every man," Belsner said . ".
"For now, if I had a girl for every two men, it would look like I would be lucky.
In the "yes" answer, I have ten men and four women.
Two of these four women say they will only come when men come.
The percentage of women is 50/50, which seems unlikely.
If only two women show up, it's not a carnival. it's a gangster.
Although bear considered running a classified advertisement for female revellers in the "alternative lifestyle" section of the local newspaper, he saw it as "the last resort ".
"You just don't know what kind of people the ads will bring," Belsner said . ".
"I 'd rather keep it small and private.
This is my first carnival and I really want to be someone I know.
Or at least a friend of a friend.
I have been asking men to bring along any women who are willing to bring along, but I probably shouldn't have expected it.
Art Schonbrod, Swinger and author of global thinking, swinging in the local area, said that Bear's setbacks were common among the first
Organizers of the time Carnival"Most first-
"The timer was surprised to find out how much it would cost to plan the Carnival," says Timers brod . ".
"There's a lot of pressure from music to props to invitation lists.
But planners have to remember that in the end, everything is peripheral.
The most important thing is to celebrate the combination of friends and acquaintances on a crazy sex convention night. If [Belsner]
Keep his point and don't let all these troubles affect him, he will have a carnival to remember for many years.
"I believe everything will be fine and everyone will have a good time," Belsner said . " He called a Mexican restaurant to ask about the food price.
"For me, I will be happy when everything is over.