Daisy Dumas update: at 15: 03 on January 10, 2012, EDT, a new Christian book, gave the green light to a series of sexual taboos such as anal sex and the use of sex toys, it was attacked for pursuing a gender-averse and open sex agenda in marriage.
New book by pastor Mark Driscoll
Written with his wife, Grace, has broken up in moral terms.
There is no more anger than a devout Christian.
True marriage: the truth about sex, friendship and common life, solving core relationship values --and casts an X-
Rating some of the more blushing people
There are taboos about sexuality and its position in Christian relations. The Seattle-
The 41-year-old leader of the evangelical super-class church is different. and sellable -
He is a pastor who wrote about sex, and the book went on the list of top sellers at Amazon and Barno when it was released last week.
This is not the first time there has been disagreement over the words of the disputed "man's man" pastor.
The book, set in a highly sexualized American culture, often mentions numbers that highlight how young some couples are when they first have sex, for example, how many teenagers often perform oral sex.
This does not prevent many people from discovering that the content is too exposed and naive --destroying.
The reason for the protest is clear --
This book is not afraid to retreat from some Christian views that are basically held.
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It even comes with some sort of disclaimer that suggests that those older people, from highly conservative religious backgrounds, live away from big cities and don't spend too much time on the Internet, also don't have cable TV, you may want to read this chapter when you sit down.
"When" arbitrarily pushed ", there is no birth control --
Like TV stars and counting for 19 kids, Duggars-
Considered "stupid legalism", leading to "self"righteousness.
They went through a series of sexual acts and asked if the Bible first declared them legal and then if they were helpful.
The couple went on to ask if these acts were "slavery ".
Love and Marriage: stream dri, shot in an interview, was criticized for their candid views on sexual masturbation, oral sex, anal sex, role play, menstrual period, sex toys, birth control, cosmetic surgery, cyber sex, sex drugs, and marital sexual assault were systematically studied.
There is no doubt that its adult content is: "Many Christian couples have decided that while anal sex is allowed, it is not good because they think the risk is too great.
However, the couple wrote that some people chose to try it at least.
"The Bible does not prohibit masturbation. " This sentence is very direct.
Some Christians hope so.
They say the couple can use their photos when they are separated.
Or see each other on the Internet
To masturbate
Oral sex is considered a "well managed" gift, whereas abortion is referred to as "murder" and the intrauterine device is found to be a "miscarriage ".
No problem with plastic surgery-
Freedom: If your spouse wants you to look like another person because he or she desires that person, then that motivation is guilty.
The couple felt that the body did not belong to the spouse and people praised their experiment.
This chapter even gives advice on where to buy sex toys to avoid nude photos that are usually associated with sex shops.
When it comes to anal intercourse, it is recommended to have a clear conscience, and the biggest warning sign in the entire controversy section seems to come from the risk of addiction.
The lesson seems to be: keep practicing without letting them take over from normal sexual intercourse.
Critics have made clear their opposition.
Denny Burk, write atdennyburk.
Com said he "can only imagine how chapter 10 will fall on those who experience actually being sexually innocent" and thought the chapter was a "prescription for a marriage disaster ".
In fact, he said that although he was far from innocent, I had never heard of their abnormal behavior before reading them in the tenth chapter of Pastor Delhi Cole's book.
It seems to me that there is a problem.
Others believe that the book is feminine-averse and focuses too much on the satisfaction of men.
The book is a shocking work of disrespect for women. com.
Add Challies, atchallies.
Com wrote that the book lacks internal cohesion
Is this a sexual guide or a book about marriage, but it would be more offensive in terms of content.
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In chapter 10, many sexual acts have been defended.
According to Mr. Challies and many internet forum commentators, this is "abusive.
Most importantly, he said the book in the gospel of separation.
Others call the book "disguised" to varying degrees, with a high degree of emphasis on "shock value" and "worry", while Rachel Evans wrote about it on zelelheldevans.
She found pastor Mark's "concern for sex and men" shocking.
She found that the book reflected an elegant "troublesome sexual relationship" that "often acted as a damaged and guilty wife" while "honoring heroes ". . .
It was reasonable to leave his wife, but instead he came to save her.
But it is fundamentally flawed: "Mark Driscoll is not qualified at all as a sexual therapist --
Not most priests! ' she writes. Eyebrow-
Some people think that although the book may have improved, it has a location.
Bob Coey, the pastor of the Calvary Chapel in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, told The Christian Post that he believed that real marriage was both "timely" and "very" and very applicable, because it deals with topics that are sometimes not handled, especially 20-somethings.
The book was promoted to win praise for pastormark.
There are weekly reviews from other pastors, doctors and publishers on TV.
Pastor Mark, responding to a lot of negative reactions in an interview with CNN, said that sometimes reviewers reveal more of their own struggles than the actual problems of the book.
"I will not give it up.
He told the Internet that I would shoot a gun.
The priest has apparently stabilized himself.
He told CNN that you tried to write a book about having sex with your wife.
"It's not just something that comes out of my head. . .
He said to the network that I have been dealing with these issues for 15 years and have been tested for combat.
He added that in order to help as many people as possible, he would endure as much criticism as possible.