Amy thornsepp.
26,200 the type of 4SEX books is as extensive as sex itself: some are educational, but too technical, some are purely entertainment, but rarely for a long time
While others have tempting places, it turns out to be stupid in the end.
These books are usually hidden in places with insufficient light behind the bookstore, such as three
Forcing awkward readers to wander all the aisles.
However, this journey is worth it.
There is no magical combination that can turn any of us into champion lovers, but we can't help but hope.
As Woody Allen says, "Love is the answer, but sex asks some very interesting questions when you're waiting for the answer.
"You can only wonder how Alan's character in sleeper Miles Monroe will look at the elder master Sue Johansson, who is the host of two popular TV shows on the Oxygen network?
With her No.
Nonsense, Johansson is a Canadian grandmother who looks like a picture of that kind of woman man when she tries to postpone her orgasm.
Sex, sex, and more (
ReganBooks/HarperCollins for $21. 95)is her A-to-
Z sexual orientation, dysfunction, and Anatomy guidelines, based on questions she received during her tenure as a sex educator and radio and television host at the Winnipeg youth clinic.
Johnson is a registered nurse and her best quality is her compassion.
She said to an abused woman seeking help: "You deserve the best. He ain't it.
"She urges a woman who wants to video with her boyfriend," never write on paper or film what you don't want to appear on the front page of National Inquirer.
"But John Sen is too fast to suggest consultation as a treatment --
Everything, she seems to be constantly outside of the sexual cycle.
When a woman says she's been pretending to be orgasm for years, Johansson doesn't mention the word "clit" and doesn't point out that most women won't reach orgasm through sexual intercourse.
Another woman wrote that she and her boyfriend "had sex under public toilets, cinemas, planes, canoes and restaurants"room table.
Is it normal to have sex 21 times a day?
Johnson just congratulated her. -
Unable to recognize put-
When she saw one
Alas, in order to take advantage of the popularity newly acquired by John Sen, "sex, sex, and more sex" seems to be printed in a hurry;
It is not easy to believe that a sex master, who misspelled the names of both doctors.
Ernst Gr * Finberg (
First modern physician describing point G)
And Peloni's illness.
Nevertheless, there is a lot of reliable information and advice that lacks judgment when she is working harder --boiled peers.
When a woman expressed concern about not having sex regularly with her husband, Johansson told her: "Don't compare yourself to others.
As long as you are satisfied and happy, you are normal.
"The most concerned sex manual for advertising these days is her number one: a guide to thinking to please women (
Rebooks/HarperCollins, $22. 95)Written by Ian Kenner(
Full disclosure: I was quoted in the book. )
Kerner holds a doctorate in clinical studies--
He told us that he is also a premature ejaculation who is recovering. -
An impressive detailed guide has been written as a way to turn the foreplay into what he calls the "core play.
"Urges men to be members of" cliterati "who deconstructs the anatomy and awakening cycle of women and gives men specific, creative naming strategies to use in their bedrooms: the names Elvis growling and Jackson Pollock lick.
AD kerner, who was a playwright before becoming a sex therapist, modeled his book "Elements of Style ---
Chapters have titles like "rules of use" and "Don't forget your Postscript.
"He has a cool sense of humor and a strong desire for information to encourage men through an act that many people find mysterious.
When Kerner appeared on "Today", his book was covered with the title with a red bow.
Millions of women will blame Janet Jackson if the audience is struggling to find the book.
If Kerner wrote The Encyclopedia of Great Britain, then Joseph Cohen's book of penis (Broadway, $12. 95)
It is compact O. E. D.
Its body parts are compiled from facts around the world.
The book is small and the illustrations are heavy and seem to be designed to fit on top of the toilet tank.
It reveals the average speed of ejaculation (
25 miles per hour)
, The likelihood that smokers become impotence is twice that of non-smokers, and the lonely mating habits of octopus. (
"The penis of an octopus is located on one of its eight tentacles.
By the time of mating, the entire penis arm is separated and tracked to a female.
After mating, the penis dies but is still attached to the woman. ")
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One of the biggest advances in sex in the past decade-
Some of us are not Viagra. -
It was a sex store explosion targeting female customers.
So, it's appropriate to have a few consumer guides for fun toys right now, including a lot of fun for fun toys: the ultimate approach
Manual for couples and singles (
Broadway, newspaper, $12. 95)
Anne SemansSemans, co-
The authors of the guide to good vibrations of sex quickly debunked many myths surrounding them: the people who used them were losers, or the sex toys were unnatural ---
The stigma is now rapidly disappearing, in part because of Charlotte's "Sex and City" episode of addiction to her vibrator.
Many people still think that sex toys are designed for individual use, which is why Seman's advice on bringing them into a relationship is so valuable: she wisely suggests: "reassure your partner, this toy is not intended as a substitute, but as a way for both of you to experiment and entertain.
"Semans can also be interesting:" In general, it is unwise to surprise a lover with a toy when the passion is high, unless you are absolutely sure that it will live well.
"Using detailed charts, Semans introduces different styles and suggests collaboration and individual sex recipes that combine each toy.
She is determined to tell the reader that her book sounds sometimes like Randy's consumer report: "When choosing a restraint device, there is a wrist or ankle restraint device in line and it is easy --to-remove binding.
The book is exhaustive.
Even a reader who spends time in a sex store will be inspired like some men lounging around in car dealers.
For example, who knows that there is a small vibrator (the Audi-Oh)
"React to the sound so that anything you say in the microphone travels through the microphone as vibration "? (
You can also plug it into your stereo. )
The only failure of this book is that its history is too short.
Those worlds
On Saturday night, the tired general Xers walked into their local sex goods store and was shocked to find that the vibrator dates back to 1880s, when doctors used them to treat women, it is often called "hysteria ".
"For women who like orgasm without wires to reach, books can do the job well too ---
It's also quieter.
In the past, everything from Anna Ning's memoir to Xaviera holander's memoir was very interesting.
This may be a sign of our time, these days, the bad
Sexual memoirs seem to dominate good things. sex ones. Two 30-
Some of the sisters from Los Angeles, Jennifer Le and Suzanne schloberg, who published memoirs of sexual dysfunction, suggested that migraine be created in the minds of their Jewish parents. Lehr's ILL-
For sexual life (
ReganBooks/HarperCollins for $25. 95)
This is a rather humorous and frustrating description of her sexual problems with her future husband, who does not want to have sex as often or urgently as she does.
Schlosberg's curse of The Bachelor's table: a true story of not having sex on 1001 Nights (
Warner, $13. 95)
What's more interesting is that it tells the author about almost three
Years of continuous marriage.
The sisters write with a strange combination of themselves.
No self-indulgenceawareness;
They are better at knocking at the door than themselves.
Paragraphs about their grandparents, work, and Jewish backgrounds are sexually lacking in vitality, making these books read like backgame boys ---
To get something good, you want to skip the section about sex.
Thankfully, this is not the case with Suzy Bright, who came up with three difficult ways: William Harrison, Greg Boyd, and Tsaurah Litzky's erotic novels
Touchstone/Simon & Schuster, paper version, $14).
Brett, editor of the best American erotic series, found her three favorite writers and asked them to create longer narratives than she could use in the series.
The best is Boyd's widow about the married middle class.
An elderly woman who writes a pornographic novel about widow's sexual awakening in France. The novella-within-a-
The novella was deliberately hacked, but in the lower half of the page, when he found his wife's book on the computer and wondered if he ignored her, we got the husband's
The amazing sweet ending is both moving and exciting.
Amy Thorn is a sex columnist for New York magazine.
Her second novel, my old man, has just been published.
She wrote a nude City column in New York magazine.
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A version of this review was printed on page 7007031 of the National edition on September 26, 2004 with the title: Chronicle/sex books;
Elements of sexual style.