Since we discovered the vibrating "personal massager" about 30 years ago, some of us have been using sex toys ---
Or, because we created interesting things about vegetables when we were young.
But others have never used sex toys and think they will never use them.
These days, however, as our sexual arousal becomes slower and more often elusive, the vibrator may mean the difference between orgasm or no climax.
That's simple.
The vibrator makes the slow blood flow to the genitals and creates an extra strong feeling where we need it.
Whether you're a partner or a solo, I encourage you to explore. chosen, well-
The sex toys placed can make your sexual reaction hissing. (
This is how men and women are! )
I would like to clarify some misconceptions: Q: Will the use of a vibrator reduce sensitivity over time so that I don't reach orgasm that easily?
A: It's actually the opposite.
As the age grows, there is less and less blood entering the clit and vagina, and the vaginal wall is getting thinner and thinner.
Most of us need more wake-up time and more time to reach the climax.
The vibrator enhances sensitivity by rapidly and powerfully increasing the blood flow of the genitals and directly stimulating the clit. (
The clit is our favorite place. -
#1 is our brain! )
Q: My lover is worried that if I use the vibrator, I will like it more than he does.
A: No chance.
The vibrator will allow you to reach your climax faster (
After all, that's what it's about)
But it doesn't hug well, it doesn't kiss or laugh, it's really boring to talk on a pillow with a vibrator.
It's either buzzing or not.
This is a dull partner. -
Unless you need sexual help.
Q: My Lover said I should be "natural" to the climax without having to use sex toys.
I hate the "should ".
"Point out to him that his penis is in contact with you during sexual intercourse
Where the clit is
When he wakes you manually, I hope he does, and he points out that if he adds a vibrator to the wake-up game, he is unlikely to get a wrist tube from your long wake-up time
That's right. it's not the choice between him and it. -
Three people: You two use the vibrator together.
Q: I have two friends who have been burned with sex toys.
Aren't they dangerous?
There is a reason for the cheap.
They usually have no quality standards in materials or construction. -
They are called "novelty items" and I don't recommend them.
If your eyes are wide open for the price of the vibrator I recommend on our age blog, please consider that I only recommend safe medical products
Provide quality materials, elaborate structures and the best design and functionality for our seniors (
Still full of passion! )bodies.
Your R & D costs are high.
Quality materials that do not degrade, filter chemicals, break, overheat or burn.
That's why I recommend women shopping.
Sex store (brick-and-
Mortar or online)
Emphasis on health and education, as I contacted.
I hope you can explore sex toys and other porn helpers.
These days, our hormone challenged bodies may need additional help to reach orgasm, and our wrists may be fatigued before we reach our goal.
Women: try a clit vibrator with or without a fake penis, depending on whether you like the feeling of a full vagina. (
Read many vibrator reviews on this blog to help you choose. )
Man: try the sleeves, the cock ring, or the prostate irritation.
Luckily, both of our sex toys are easy to find and fun, wow, do they work?
On our age blog, I reviewed sex toys from the perspective of seniors.
What does this mean?
Is the vibration strong enough?
Is it easy to hold with arthritis's hand?
Does it last long enough not to overheat or lose charging?
Can you find out how to control without glasses?
It's my job, there's a lot to think about, but don't be afraid. (
Testing sex toys is a hard job, but, hey, someone has to do that! )
Read reviews of my sex toys (
And male reviewers of male sex toys)
Go to this link.
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= Older sex advocate Joan Price is the author of Naked at our age: talking loudly about older sex, better than I thought: talking directly about sex after 60
At our age, nude won an Outstanding Self.
2012 books to help the American Association of Journalists and writers and 2012 books from the American Association of Sex Educators, consultants and therapists.
Visit her zesty, award-
On the winning blog about sex and aging, Joan continues to talk loudly about hipsters/seniors, partners or singles.