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Dear Miss langyxin: I'm 30-year-
I think I'm used to having sex.
Maybe you can tell me.
At the end of a big party, this well
The delicate woman invited me home in my tuxedo for a drink.
"I followed her in the car.
I was impressed by the house and car outside and she just smiled.
She gave me the equivalent of half a bottle of good wine and then invited me to visit the house.
She took my clothes off in her ex-husband's study and when she was there and in the Jacuzzi and then in the master bedroom I was ready to sleep but she sent me home in the cold
I sent her two dozen spring flowers the next day.
I haven't heard her boo ever since.
Not even a thank you.
I know her address and name, but nothing else than that.
I left her my card.
Why wouldn't she call me?
I thought she really liked me.
Most women don't do that, and then leave a person hanging.
Frankly, it hurts my feelings a bit. —
Dear, don't understand: women who have been in an unpleasant or boring marriage for a long time are tired of predictable sex and obligations.
Sometimes, if they think they can't see that person anymore, he looks like a decent person (
Not dangerous ).
They will take him home for something like anonymous sex.
They don't worry about their feelings, their reputation, their looks or their behavior.
There is nothing to answer.
They can be abandoned.
But the relationship?
They did not think.
When there are divorce papers and a lot of trouble on the table, the new relationship is the most distant thing in their minds.
Looks like you're the one who was appointed-night-of-great-sex role.
Don't expect a call.
These flowers are a lovely gesture and when she gets them she may smile and remember the night with you.
But that doesn't mean she will call you and don't worry about how you feel.
No matter what you do, don't go to her house.
This is not true.
She may lie about her marital status and her husband may not be in town.
Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: Sorry, I can't stand my man trying to play with sex toys.
This should be the role of a woman.
Why would he take what he already has?
I don't know what that means.
I was very angry when my boyfriend asked me to take it out of my bag and I just said, "take it back.
"I didn't even break the plastic.
He looked very hurt and never touched me since then.
It's been almost a week.
Women have the right to say what they think and feel, don't they?
Why is he unhappy? —
Normal woman, Elmwood dear normal person: by treating him like you, you infer that it is not normal for him to take home the vibrator.
Maybe he just wants to make a difference with men who can't bend over and enjoy playing with sex toys because they think it will go beyond them and weaken them in some way.
Yes, you have the right to say what you think and feel, but that doesn't mean you can be mean and insulting to it at will.
This does not encourage anyone to stay close to you and will not risk trying again.
You know, a relationship doesn't depend entirely on the woman's thoughts and feelings.
You humiliated your man, but he is not there.
It's time to apologize to him and talk softly.
Questions or Comments?
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