They have been married for 15 years and seven years.
She's a nurse.
He is a partner of a small business.
When they were in their 30 s, they felt very comfortable with each other.
He knows that she likes to gently touch her with her fingertips, likes to make him bite her earlobe while whispering sexy intentions, likes his lips and tongue to play with one nipple first, then the other, especially like his tongue spinning on her clit, around and inside her vulva.
She knows that he likes the sound she makes when she is aroused, the sound she makes when applying nails from his head to his neck, back and ass, like the way she climbed up when he lay on his back and sat on his penis, especially like the way she stroked the shaft with one hand, while pulling his ball with the other hand, he sucked his head.
He always waited until she was well and wet to get into her body, and during sexual intercourse they all enjoyed the slow, sexy rhythm, playing alternately with their tongue until they reached their climax alternately
But sometimes, especially when their sex lasts more than one CD, she feels pain the next morning.
Although he likes the feeling of being swallowed up by her, he offered to play tongue games a few more times and fucking things a few less times.
But she enjoys the kind of special intimacy that holds him in her body, and she doesn't want to associate less, even if it means occasional pain.
This lasted for several months.
Then, at a party, he happened to be introduced to a sex therapist.
He pulled her aside and mentioned the pain of his wife.
The therapist asked, "Do you use lubricants ? ".
"No," he replied.
"It's okay for her to get wet. I gave her a long head.
The therapist replied: "It's a good start, but I bet the lubricant will help.
He called his wife and told him his therapist's advice.
"No, thank you," she said . "
"My gynecologist used it for pelvics and I can't stand this kind of thing.
"Your gynecologist may use K.
"Your Jelly," replied the therapist.
It smells very medicinal and smells very bad.
Try a space taxi or probe.
You will definitely like it.
"But I think the lubricant is only for women who don't get wet," she said . ".
"Not at all," replied the therapist . ".
"I never had sex without lubricating oil.
Try it on your vulva, vagina and his penis.
I bet it will relieve your pain. " It did.
Not only that, commercial sex lubricants enhance their ability to have sex.
A few months later, when they enjoyed a lazy glow in each other's arms, she said, "I can't believe we 've been doing it for so many years without lubricating oil.
"So did I," he replied, bringing her closer.
"Who knows" the secret of commercial lubricating oil is the slippery of sensational sex.
Unfortunately, Palo Alto, California says
Sex therapist Marty Klein (author of Ask me anything and operator of Ask Me Anything) only a small number of lovers use them.
Most sex books and many other books
People who are known as sex experts only regard passion as a quasi-
A medical treatment of a disease that has been turned into a problem--
Lack of vagina itself
"Lubrication," he said.
But vaginal dryness is not a medical problem.
It's just an inconvenience, a very common inconvenience--
Quickly and completely eliminate one kind of lubricant.
Even in those who
Good lubrication, enhanced lubes.
I think this is the greatest invention since refrigeration.
I just don't understand how people think they have good sex without using lubricants.
"Sex lubricants have never been the focus of sex research, but all the available evidence suggests that not many couples use them.
In the landmark 1994 "American sex" survey, the first to use a reasonably representative sample of Americans, researchers at the University of Chicago asked female participants, in the past year, lack of enough vaginal lubrication is their problem.
Almost 20% said yes.
Betty Dodson, a sex educator in New York, spent more than 1980 dollars teaching women sexual self.
Awareness-raising workshops and always recommending lubricants.
She estimates, "half of the women in my studio complain that they don't produce enough natural lubrication to really enjoy sex.
But few people have tried commercial lubricants.
Lubes is a revelation for them.
They thanked me so much.
In 1995, as part of its "toys on sheets" customer survey, Xandria, the country's largest seller of sex toys, asked 1,000 buyers how often they used lubricants in toysMany sex-
Lubricating Oil is recommended in toy instructions.
The same is true for the video of the complete guide to sex toys and equipment.
However, only 26% of Xandria respondents said they use lubricants frequently, and only 41% said they use lubricants in more than half of their sexual behavior.
When the customer buys the sex toy that can be inserted with good vibration, the woman-
Having a sex store in San Francisco, staff Cathy blink and Anne Semans, co-authors of the good guide to vibration, are often asked, "Do you have any lubricants ? " The typical reaction is a blank space.
"Of all the people, you think sex
Buyers of toys will understand the value. -the necessity --
Good lubrication. But no.
"Sex lubricants are cheap and are widely available and will definitely enhance sex," said sexual therapist Klein . ".
"Why more people don't use them is a complete mystery to me.
"One of the reasons is a poor association with gynecological examinations," said Louanne Cole Weston, a sex therapist at Fairoaks, California.
Gynecologist spread K
Before inserting, apply Y jelly on vaginal speculation.
Many women end up connecting lubricants to internal exams that are definitely not pornographic experiences.
Other than that, it seems to me that K-
Y is probably the worst lubricant.
This is gloppy. it smells very medicinal.
My husband and I use lubricating oil every time we have sex, but neverY. We like Probe.
Another reason why there is a general lack of spirituality is that many people believe that "normal" sex involves only the body, not anything else.
They don't think the lubricating oil is natural.
"Nonsense," said Sandel gados, a San Francisco sexologist with about sex consultants. com.
"The lubricant is as natural as any other non-physical sexual booster: candlelight, soft music, underwear, a glass of wine or sexy video.
Some couples think the lubricating oil is messy.
If that's what you think, the blink of an eye and Seman suggest using only a little bit of the dab: "Most of the people who give the opportunity to lubes are happy to accept a little bit of extra confusion, because they provide extra comfort and pleasure.
"There is also opposition to the bad taste of lubricating oil, which interferes with oral sex.
It is true that the taste is different.
Blink of an eye and Seman suggest making a night of flavor-
Test several brands
You can also try safe, edible lubricantsa-
Lubricating oil.
There are four flavors: cherry, Italian, strawberry and watermelon.
Other couples think this is a disturbance.
Gardos explained: "Of course it will take a little time to squeeze some lubricant into your hand and then apply it, but when a loved one reaches out to get the lubricant, the other side knows that a very pleasant thing is about to happen.
It's not an interruption, and the moment of erotic anticipation can make you hotter.
"Heterosexual men are usually excluded from the lubricating oil circuit.
Gay men involved in anal sex usually use lubricants, but in heterosexual relationships, lubes is considered a woman's business. Wrong.
Men can apply them to their loved ones and use them on their penises.
"Every time I make love, I use the lubricant myself," Klein said . ".
"I will not leave home without it during the trip.
Part Two: Masters and Johnson got it wrong.