Dear Miss langai hearts: My boyfriend and I were fighting on the balcony because he smoked smelly cigars and cigarettes.
I told him he was a jerk to smoke and put his life at risk.
He used to say that he wanted to be the father of my child.
But this Christmas holiday, he had the courage to say that his feelings were changing because I changed from a woman with a sense of personality to a drone in old clothes.
Ladies underwear, don't take care of her looks.
I said, "Right!
Then why don't I change myself for you and be your robot?
"I walked into the bedroom, took out the top underwear drawer and came out on the balcony. he smoked again and threw my underwear on the railing.
My boyfriend said I was crazy, packed up two suitcases and went to his brother's house.
He didn't come back.
He needs time to come back and get the rest. Help! —
Dear, want him back, the city center wants him: pick up the phone and ask for a talk.
Maybe your relationship is over, but he still needs to get his stuff, you need to find someone to pay the other half of the rent, or move to a smaller place.
It is not helpful to keep silent.
Maybe you can play through the balcony, have a good talk and solve the problem.
Who knows? one day you can look back at this smile.
Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: my sad and lonely dog left me and my heart was broken.
He went down the road to a farm where he lived.
The neighbors called to say they had him and they tried to send him home but he just didn't go.
I think it's because they have other animals and we only have one of them.
He used to skip the fence and often went there during the day.
I think they fed him with the other animals and won his victory.
I admit that my young husband and I both work in town, so he is alone all day.
We also went out for a while at night.
It's just a pain to be rejected by your dog.
We really love him and think he's cute, but I guess it's not enough when you don't put in time.
What should I do? —
Bad Mother, out of town, dear miss him: Personally I think you should leave him there with your blessing and the rest of the doggy bags and his doggie toys
Maybe you can visit him once in a while.
Or will it make him afraid that he will be tied to the Belt and return to the lonely situation?
I don't know what the dog specialist will say and they are welcome to send the proposal to the address below.
Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: after the Christmas party, I was stupid and drunk to go to bed with a colleague, and we were together every day during the holidays.
Now that we're back at work, it's embarrassing.
Although I found him funny and nice in bed, I didn't love him and he was fascinated by me.
But I can't feel it. I want him to give up.
How can I tell him when our working life together is not over
What's worse, the boss will fire me before he does? —
Rock and hard place, holy
Dear Rock: you will be doing the kindest "fade" you can do with this person ".
You can start by offering a friendship instead of retreating at work and letting it cool down from there.
At the beginning he spoke more than less, but there was a lot of boredom, small talk and awkward pauses.
Then set aside time between conversations.
He may find you boring at work, quite different from your behavior in bed.
If the fade out is not working well, you may want to look for a new position with the same pay or higher in another workplace.
Now, just wait a minute.
For him, this impulse may settle down slowly and become the past.
Pray for the ending.
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