Since the film classification committee took a new film Diary of a teenage girl with an ironic 18-point --
Most teenagers are forbidden to watch in the cinema.
Critics and viewers praised their brutal and honest performance of youth sexuality.
Bell Polly told the teenage girl to take a fake ID card to see her latest movie and I 've been thinking, how I wish girls all over the country could see serious pirated copies on their laptops.
You see, they need to be exposed to the glorious message of it: the painful, burning, and aggressive desire of female teenagers to burn themselves.
About ten years ago, when I was 15
Same age as the film protagonist)
There is no Kettering Moran blatantly writing about learning masturbation, and there is no self-help website to tell you that your rapidly growing sex is normal and there is no diary for a teenage girl
On the contrary, the myth that girls do not masturbate still exists.
Even in the early 2000 s, we thought the teenage boy was Randy's boy.
It's a beautiful movie-not just to prove that girls in their teens also have huge sexual impulses.
But it does keep me with an uncomfortable person.
Bel Powley interview: "I want a lot of girls to see a diary of a teenage girl and share my experience", on the most basic level, The Diary of a teenage girlyear-
An old girl had a very satisfying sexual relationship with a man 20 years older than her and happened to go out with her mother.
When you think about it, it sounds like a case of abuse. But it’s not.
This is not abuse because Minnie, the main character, does not feel abused.
The film concludes that she may think she is wrong with his relationship, but mistakes and abuse are completely different things.
In the diary of a teenage girl, Bell Polly and Alexander skagold took a photo: The Story of the All-Star game made me wonder, did the way we tried to protect young women in 2015 actually stop them from going through, making mistakes, and really living.
Of course, this is a different story for boys.
It is clear that men do not need to be protected from sexual activity.
When we hear the story of Lord Byron or the recent American rapper Chris Brown and others, we smile --
They all lost their virginity before the age of 12.
Imagine if the gender of these high-profile characters is reversed, we will adopt a sympathetic tone.
So why are we making early male sexual contact less shocking than women?
Because despite all sorts of changes in sex over the last few hundred years, we still insist that boys are randy little ones who want sex, and girls are the delicate little flowers of the victims.
The desire to protect young women from abuse or predatory relationships is a noble emotion that no reasonable person can belittle.
But, regardless of its value, is it possible to deprive young women of the right to establish satisfactory sexual relations in the early stages of sexual intercourse and keep them away from the basic right of way to make mistakes?
When a young man is ready to start exploring their sexuality, this intangible nature is reflected in the different age of consent in the developed world.
There are 14 countries such as Austria and Portugal, and 18 in Malta and Turkey.
But even in countries that set the age of consent to be more liberal in the early or middle of a teenager, there is a strong precedent for further litigation of the relative age of the population in question.
Due to the low incidence of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases in the Netherlands, it is often seen as an example of allowing sex between the ages of 12 and 16, but in order to have legal sex with people over the age of 16, you must also be over 16 years old.
Again, the motivation behind this legislation is to protect young people from abuse.
But, this does not disappear from the uncomfortable fact that a teenage girl's diary presents undisguised: having sex with a skilled and experienced person is more satisfying than having sex with someone who doesn't know what the clit is.
The film's official trailer sex skills and sexual experience do perform more frequently in older people, like snooker or wine tasting skills.
Practice becomes perfect with age.
So, is it strange that young women continue to have sex with older men, a relationship that is at best offensive and the worst is illegal?
Assuming that any teenage girl who has sex with someone older than her will automatically become a victim, deny the uncomfortable fact that a teenage girl's diary is trying to present.
Young women have sex.
They have the same desires as young people, and they have the right to seek satisfaction for these desires.
Sometimes when you're a teenager, the sex you want is a bad choice.
But how do we learn to walk, talk, read, and finally how do we learn to have meaningful sexual and romantic relationships is something we do wrong.
As a society, we like litigation more and more, which is also reflected in our attitude towards adolescent sexuality.
Those who use young people to have sex should suffer for their behavior, which is perfectly correct.
But should the first response be to resort to law?
I 've written in the past about how safe it is to assume abuse at older age --
Publicly condemning Adam Johnston.
But I can't help but wonder if I have ignored the female agency in my assumption of being abused.
Perhaps a better system than legislation for adolescent sexuality is to create a better culture of honesty between teenagers and their parents, teachers and role models.
If young women feel that they can have a conversation without fear of asking for help, it will be easier to monitor relationships that abuse them, thus leaving room for those who do not abuse them.
When the Netherlands is praised for its low teenage pregnancy rate-this is often attributed to decent sex education and contraceptive measures available at any time in the country.
Few mention that Dutch parents actively encourage open dialogue with their children on sexual relations.
Not all girls who have sex with older partners will eventually feel abused.
In retrospect, there is a difference between the wrong sexual experience and the abusive sexual experience.
If we allow young women the freedom to do so, they can tell the difference between the two.