Recently, a friend of mine told me about his roommate's new personality toy.
This is from Japan. -
All smooth, high
He panted and said he seemed enthusiastic about the latest iPad.
"Obviously it feels great.
This is what the same male friend I remember 10 years ago told me. -
With pity and disgust-
How he accidentally found a "fake Pussy" under his friend's bed.
This is not just a shift in personal attitudes: Men's penetrating toys have revolutionized over the past decade.
The "pocket" vagina has long been ridiculed as the object of despair and fear: most of the vagina is uneven in proportion, rubber-
Some even sew the synthetic pubic hair on the artificial meat (their goal is to have a much larger anatomical text than most vibrators or false penises ).
These types of toys range from a few dollars to a few hundred dollars, but are usually known for imitating real things.
However, thanks to several eading companies, masturbation sleeves ---
Usually a hose through the penis--
Become more and more fashionable, sexy and hightech.
As a result, the attitude towards "asshole"
Toys are slowly changing.
Mark, a single father in his early 40 s who owns a Fleshlight, explains that in order to get the toy out of the shame of the "creepy guy, it has to keep the right balance "the more real the simulation is (and the more expensive, the more complex it is), the more it can be considered a substitute for a real woman, while men are considered unappealing.
Fleshlight has sold more than 4 million toys since 1995, creating a transition from a tablet to a tablet --of-
Charlie Glickman says he is a sex educator with good vibrations.
In the classic model, the company's 10 inch Signature "real feel super Gold" is hidden in the flashlight --
Like a tube, except for an opening at one end, this opening either has a simple opening or is modeled on various holes.
It is equipped with a range of interior textures and shapes-
Some are too maze.
Like, they seem to be meant to replicate sex with ducks (funny fact: Ducks have a spiral vagina ).
But it's a game.
Changing the product "is largely due to its high
Technology materials, says Glickman.
Before Fleshlight, "male masturbation sleeves are either products that are not well designed, or attractive products, or a blow
"Increase the type of doll," he said . ".
"Fleshlight is not cheap plastic or vinyl.
The brand's marketing also helps: It's a company with a disrespectful sense of humor ---
Just think about its monster route.
Theme Fleshlights (apparently MS. Dracula bat
Shaped labia) or a collection equipped with artificial beer cans.
Adding its series to mimic the naughty clips of various female porn stars, as well as its sponsorship of the aerial sex tournament, it is easy to imagine that it will be accepted (semi-
Of course, ironically) in a college crowd.
This is very different from the stereotype of yore by the desperate old man.
Another industry leader is Teng Jia, the brand my friend's roommate is talking about: a row of Japanese sleeves that completely avoid erotic aesthetics.
If you don't have an introductory knowledge on the product site, you might think they're selling high --
Provide a tech remote or modern art sculpture for your desktop. Its new 3-
The ad for Series D sleeves uses images from inside to outside, showing carefully crafted, frankly, beautiful raised geometric patterns.
The model of the Zen Master looks like a Japanese masculine rock garden.
Jim Blanchard, the company's senior vice president for American developmentS.
Tencent's distribution told me, "the internal design of the product has nothing to do with the internal organs of women.
This is a clever concept.
In the United States,S.
Tencent's new growth is mainly in Spa and Salon.
"We have also been pushing it in the medical community to bring benefits to patients with [erectile dysfunction], or to rehabilitation after prostate surgery or vasectomy.
"Interestingly, the company's eggs --
Plastic products were Amazon's biggest seller a few years ago, thanks to a lovely ad that shows the product along with the chicken (Label line: "Different Strokes of different egg yolks! "). The brand’s U. S.
He said the audience was largely divided into gay, "mature" heterosexual men and couples.
Matt, his girlfriend bought him two dog eggs during their long relationship.
Distance, says, "it's like when you use superhuman masturbation.
"Aesthetics is also important:" It looks more like a silly putty than some sort of bulky big toy, "he said, adding," We have gone through airport security, never had a problem.
"Now, his girlfriend occasionally uses toys on him, or looks at him while he uses them.
In addition to better design and technology, the companies benefit from what Glickman says is "porn coming out of the closet ".
He explained, "The more you hear other people talk about which porn star they like, even if no one says, 'Oh, yes, of course, I was hijacked while watching so --and-
So, you know it's there.
"In general, men are becoming less and less embarrassed about masturbation," Glickman said . ". Mark agrees.
"I think high-
"The end product niche is the result of the Internet, which has completely changed the way sex is expressed," he said . ".
"People are becoming less and less ashamed and mysterious about their sex lives, and many ridiculous excuses and ignorance make it to be frank and informative.
"It's also difficult to bully and humiliate people who have a supportive community," Mark noted . ".
This is not to say that shame has disappeared. -
But it has decreased significantly, most notably in the heterosexual population.
"For a long time, gay men have greatly increased their acceptance of sexual toys and masturbation," Glickman said . ".
"If part of male masturbation phobia is masculine temperament, then gay men are more likely to make a difference in this regard.
"There are also double standards in the field of sex toys, which is notable because there is a greater obstacle to the fact of accepting female masturbation. Vibrators --
It is worth noting that both genders can be used, but mainly for female sales-
Has been stable in the mainstream.
They advertise on daytime television and sell at pharmacies and "Tupperware parties.
This is not the case with men's single toys.
Chuck, 52, told me that he bought a meat while his wife was away.
"[After she came home] I raised my question about buying sex toys and she said, 'I know it's not fair because I have sex toys but I don't want you to do that
He finally threw the toy out. Phil, a 25-year-
The old Virgin with several different sleeves said, "Our society expects men to find sexual gratification at all times without having to resort to sexual toys.
When men cannot find a sexual partner, both men and women consider them "lovers ".
In his view, the sexual experience of women has benefited more significantly from the "sexual revolution and several feminist waves.
But Glickman believes toys like Fleshlight are becoming more and more popular --in-
With the rise of female sex toys, female sex toys have received the same help. end design.
Progress may be slow, but the male norm is changing: As I wrote before, straight men are increasingly willing to incorporate vibrators into partner sex and become the receiving end of anal games.
The change is hatching, one at a time.