Sex can be a daunting experience for various reasons, but something can happen in bed that can really scare your partner.
To avoid scaring her, remember some guidelines when encountering this strange, unexpected, or completely horrible behavior.
Sex toys: the first thing that scares a woman in bed is to have her do something she has never done before.
Depending on how confident she is, a request for something she has not experienced before may make her tremble in her boots (
Or high heels (depending on the situation).
Before you create a new idea for her, feel her knowledge and comfort level on this issue first.
A simple: "Have you tried this before?
"Don't scare her to help a lot before you start.
Hand on her neck: a casual move, wrap your hand around her neck and squeeze it a little, if she's warned in advance that's something that excites you, that might be perfectly OK, or, of course, if it's what she's asking.
However, suddenly holding her choking while having sex is a reliable way to get her out of bed.
There are a lot of people who really like violent sex, violent characters --
Play, or even some real pain, but if you haven't discussed your preferences with your sexual partner before going to bed with her, when her defense is down, you can't open something like that.
Post view: some women are opened with the idea of anal stimulation, while others may find it disgusting.
Don't get close to her ass until you know which woman you're sleeping.
It was almost unexpected anal penetration that scared her in bed.
That is, using fingers, tongue or toys too close to the general area is enough to scare some women.
Learn what she thinks about the movie before you try any anal sex.
Most women can operate a simple vibrator or blindfold, but if your thoughts on fun props include handcuffs, ropes, whips and textured butt plugs, you may want to let her relax before you take out all your toys.
Swearing: this has always happened in the privacy of your bedroom.
In the heat of the moment, if you are not careful, all kinds of things will come out of your mouth.
The downside of doing so is that action is not the only thing that can scare her in bed;
You can do the job well, too.
Maybe you started by whispering a fantasy in her ear, but once your voice appeared on a serial killer --
Like intensity, you start to get into too many psychological details, your little story gets dark, and she makes up some excuses to have to wash your hair or get up early in the morning.
If you want to avoid scaring her in bed, leave these little stories to yourself.
Of course, what a woman lying in bed is afraid of may make another woman hot and annoyed, so you never know how she will react to a tangle, fetish or unusual behavior-unless, of course, you ask her.
If she has fetishes, it is unlikely that she will remain silent about them.
On the other hand, if you bring this up, she suddenly says, you 'd better find out earlier that your sex is incompatible.