Seriously, a lot.
Sex toy retailers often claim that their latest invention is "brand new ".
This is not usually the case.
This is just a slightly different version of something that already exists.
However, Lelo has actually done something new.
It's called Sona and it works differently than the other vibrators I 've tried.
The reason it's so different, according to Lelo, is because it doesn't actually use vibration.
It's not really a vibrator.
It's a massager.
It's hard to explain exactly how it works, but it's almost like sucking your clit.
"Sona Cruise is a sonic clit massager," Lelo said.
This means that it doesn't rely on vibration as much as conventional sex toys do.
Instead, it uses sound waves and pulses to stimulate the entire clit-not just the external part that you can see and touch.
But it's not just the way it's designed.
That's how it feels.
I am trying to use Sona with my partner while having sex.
Not in the right direction and felt awkward, so I gave up the plan and came back here alone a few days later.
First of all, it feels strange.
Very, very strange.
It's like it's exciting from the inside out.
This is very intense.
I like a sex toy that has something in it, but it's another thing.
It's like I don't know that part of the clit that exists is involved in it.
I turned it down and did some calm breathing and did it again.
Since I didn't expect it to be any different from the standard vibrator, I was really shocked by how it felt.
The climax it produces is also different.
It's more like a winding road than a slow build of a climax, with a lot of smaller highs in one climax.
I find the whole thing difficult to predict and confusing, but not unpleasant.
For more than a decade, when you have reached your climax in exactly the same way, some people who feel really different will surprise you.
Since trying Sona, I have had a little strange relationship with it.
It's not love and hate, but it's something in this regard.
Sometimes I use it and think of it as the best toy ever invented.
Other times I 'd hate it a bit and want my usual bullet.
I think if you don't have much fun with other sex toys, or if you try to reach the climax, Sona will be a perfect attempt.
Trying something different can get you out of the same state, which gives masturbation (
An important part of life)
Something novel.
Sona is a bit like trying to put on sexy underwear for my partner for me.
You don't want to do this every time, but the change makes it more exciting, and as Nancy Mitford once wrote, it's all part of an "organized sex life.