A few months ago, after I slammed the old version of War Horse in the salon, I received a letter from the reader asking me to recommend a sex book.
If I read just now
Cathy Winks and Anne Semans published the third edition of the good guide to Vibration: the most complete manual of sex ever, and I will find the answer for them.
In order to cut into the topic directly, I can\'t imagine a better, more informative, more inspiring, and more common --
A more meaningful and readable sex guide than a \"good vibration guide for sex.
\"The Semans and the blink of an eye have gotten rid of almost impossible things: a book of reliable sexual advice and information, both men and women and all directions, races, ages and--
I think it\'s really delicate. -
Level of experience.
You can imagine that the book was used by parents to tell their children about sex, teenagers who were tried to discover alone, newlyweds, couples who have been together for many years, single by choice or environment.
I think the hardest thing to do when talking openly about sex is to try to break through the evil and destructive idea that sexual guilt is a necessary part of sexual morality.
Too many people seem to think that they are \"bad guys\" unless they feel bad about some aspects of their sexuality \".
They operate under the illusion that there is one and only acceptable way of making love, and every deviation from this so called norm marks their selfishness, or worse
We all recognize some of these sins.
Produce things.
\"I feel guilty about masturbation \";
\"I feel guilty about using the vibrator with my partner \";
\"I really like the reverse.
Because I can\'t see my partner\'s face, the location of the cowboy girl \";
\"Tell my lover that he (or she) is not doing what I want to do in bed and I feel guilty \";
\"I feel guilty because I am in love and I still fantasize about it.
\"In order to understand the importance of the blink of an eye and what half a person does in the guide to good vibrations of sex,\" I ask you to accommodate me to digress, trying to put all sorts of unnecessary sexual guilt in their social context.
In order to do this, we must be willing to acknowledge the simple fact that all the talk about our sexually open society is nonsense.
Simple and clear. Horseshit.
We are in the midst of an ongoing public health crisis, and we are still debating whether to provide the most basic, life-saving information to people in danger.
Condom manufacturers are unable to promote their products on the radio network.
We live in an era where theocrats, who are better suited to living under the Taliban than a free society, have what they call themselves \"pro-
\"When they pursue policies that inevitably lead to death, whether it\'s women who can\'t have an abortion (poor women, of course, because the rich always have the option of medical security) or children who cannot get birth control information.
An editorial in the comments section of the New York Times on Sunday outlined the repeal Roe and the Bush administration are taking.
Wade, despite the fact that teenagers have sex, has pushed the contradiction known as abstinence --only education.
We are facing a continuing outbreak of the world population crisis and AIDS, and world leaders are still not United to take steps that they will one day be unable to avoid: putting pressure on the Vatican, it is required to close family planning.
Religious rights have long been talking about the consequences --
When the truth is that they refuse to face the consequences of their joint efforts to stop sex education and information, free \"sex: a large number of unwanted pregnancies, disease transmission and death.
The January issue of Playboy has a shocking article written by sexual therapist Marty Klein on Oprah and her new Mini
Dr. I (if not literally)Phil --
Or Letterman called him a \"scammer\"
Klein gave the example of Winfrey and Dr.
Phil tells couples whose sex life has dried up that if they don\'t force themselves to have sex with their spouse, the silent partner is selfish and tells their audience that women don\'t watch porn, men watch porn-
Or have any sexual thoughts that do not involve a spouse-
Being derailed (which may mean that in order to be consistent with her beliefs, Oprah should issue a disclaimer before her show tells chubby chasers to switch channels ).
A good example of how we can avoid sexual reality appears in the recent New York Times Book Review article, which revised sex happiness.
The author of The Times is a doctor, sex therapist, educator or activist. No, it has the humorous writer Christopher Buckley.
To be fair, in order to acknowledge the limitations of the \"family newspaper\" that he was working on, he handed in an interesting article and did not take that absurd book more seriously than it should.
But the assignment of a humorous writer means that The Times does not have to deal with the issue of evaluating a PhD.
Alex Conford\'s suggestion is that people have to train like athletes to have sex, that more than one can\'t replace a partner, and more than one claims that anal sex is always unsafe and should be completely avoided, this evades the evaluation of the practicality and logic of the Conford argument.
You can\'t imagine a book review avoiding the impact of the latest public.
For example, a policy nap on submarine irrigationSahara.
But they are upset about a problem that we have faced all our lives. Rant over.
Semans and blinks don\'t have time for themselvesOvercome selfdenying guilt.
The two men state their creed at the beginning of the book: \"For the sake of happiness, you should experience happiness\", and about the use of sexual toys, \"morally, aesthetically or romantically, any way to experience sexual pleasure is not as good as others.
\"Whether we\'re talking about sex, food, watching movies or reading books, it\'s not necessarily reasonable to be happy, it\'s still a radical idea.
(Think still-
The popular concept of \"Happy guilt\" viewing is that we should feel guilty about what we like.
) The book is divided into chapters to discuss self, among other topics
Images, anatomy, the way we experience sex change throughout our lives (they don\'t use the idea of non-sexual behavior in the elderly), masturbation, sexual intercourse, touch, oral sex, anal sex, lubrication, sexual toys, fantasy.
There is also a list of sexual resources ---
Help Line, message line, mail-
Order retailers, publishers.
Throughout the process, people are free to use citations from people who have received good vibration surveys.
These are very smart.
Usually you don\'t know if a man or woman is talking or if the person is straight or gay.
The key is to break the barrier and most obviously the man who enjoys anal stimulation must be gay.
The effect is to tell us that we all have a lot to learn from each other\'s sexual experience (a popular, useful, sex manual in recent years is called \"male gay sex skills \").
Similarly, the illustration by Phoebe Gloeckner shows gay couples, men and women, masturbation and sex toys.
Good vibration is a woman for those who don\'t know --
The San Francisco boutique, which has existed since 1977, has grown to two stores, and the number of mail has surged. order business.
The first edition of the guide was published in 1994.
(Other books of the company include Cathy Winks\'s slim and wise in the good vibration guide for adult videos.
Anyone who has visited a woman
Operating stores, whether in Babeland, New York, the grand opening of Boston or elsewhere, understand the advantages of these businesses ---
To men and women. -
On the \"novelty\" shelf of the adult bookstore.
Most adult bookstore stuff doesn\'t take into account durability or value, and the person working there has no responsibility to answer your question about the difference between the Hitachi wand and the Rabbit Pearl vibrator. At the women-
Business premises, you get sales people who know about their products and they ask questions to help you determine what is right for you, open and friendly people in a way that tends to overcome any potential embarrassment.
Blink of an eye and the samarans are very friendly to their customers.
Based on her own retail experience at the store, Cathy Winks wrote, \"the hippest left-wing people may get out of the store in a shy panic.
The most Republican military may show full familiarity and affection for our product line.
\"About the only people women support --
A business store is not a safe haven (thank God
Sexual feminists believe that pornography and pornography are exploitation or violence against women (which is not to say that they will not be respected if they venture in ).
Blink of an eye and the Semans are great spokesmen for a pro-industrypleasure, pro-self-knowledge, pro-
With your partners and-guilt, -shame, -prudery and -embarrassment.
For me, it took too long to study the details of all the topics covered by the blink of an eye and the Semans.
Every chapter is related to consumer goods. -
Sex toys, lubricants, pornography, written pornography-
Contains a good, compact discussion of advantages and disadvantages or various products available.
For example: is there oral sex on the menu? Then you may want a lubricant with no taste.
Using a silicone penis, then you want a nonsilicone lube.
First try cock ring, leather, Velcro-
The fastening variety is safer than the metal ring, which may need to travel to Home Depot and purchase a bolt cutter to get off the bus.
Neither their advice nor information was written in hipper. than-thou manner.
The author\'s guidelines are to make each reader feel good about where they are comfortable or uncomfortable.
They avoid the subtle condescending of sex writers, and if you don\'t do your best, they make you feel like you\'re the mother of Whistler --
Things around sex.
In the friendliest and least threatening way, they are able to come up with things that you might not have thought.
My favorite eyes
The opening remarks are about the part of the benefits men can get if their partner uses a vibrator during sexual intercourse.
) One of the biggest contributions that Winks and Semans offer here is the book\'s cumulative vision of the composition of sexual ethics.
It\'s not just what you expect: sex should happen between agreed adults (although they are brave and eloquent on the right of teens to experience sexual pleasure), and safe sex is a must.
Sexual morality, as defined in the guide to good vibrations of sex, is the issue of maintaining constant communication, is the thing that loyalty brings you happiness, because you get pleasure from something other than a missionary of the opposite sex without feeling guilty
Location sexual intercourse.
Winks and Semans have written a book designed to grow with you in your sex life.
One of its other advantages is amazing sanity.