Warning: If you \'ve ever bought sex toys, this article contains explicit sex content, and you\'ll most likely feel a little ashamed.
You order either online (
Working with a company that clearly promotes its \"discreet packaging)
Or you rushed home with that brown paper bag, so no one saw you leave the sex store.
It feels dirty to buy sex toys because we are taught to think they are meant to be sad and lonely.
TV and movies tell us that the vibrator is only for single women.
Lovers don\'t need a third time.
The guys who are party-stimulating and have sex toys are very abnormal.
It\'s no wonder that after dark, you will browse the aisles of the local sex goods store, and very few people will come across you on the street.
However, I don\'t think the media and the wider community will be blamed for the fact that sex toy shopping feels so bad.
Manufacturers and retailers of these toys need to take some responsibility.
Let\'s start with why I don\'t like the sex toy industry.
Most toys and displays in real life and on the Internet have phonics --shaped items.
Regardless of your sexual orientation, these sellers think \"penis is King\" and everyone is obsessed with it.
Either you have one and want it to be bigger, harder or stronger or you want one in your body.
They are designed in such a way that a man is the scent of a male eye.
It also bothers me to use porn stars to market sex toys.
In order to find what you want, you have to go through the images of Barbie
Blonde woman with whip, in nasty underwear and Greece-god-
It\'s like a man wearing too much sun-tanned clothes, and big garbage without thinking about it.
Even if you just go out and buy a cute little vibrator or some massage oil, lubricating oil or condom, you will be visually attacked by fake breasts and huge circumcised penis.
You read it right.
Sex toys are big business, and manufacturers attach great importance to the brand and marketing of sex toys.
Whether it\'s Fleshlight, LELO or nJoy\'s pure wand, these toys are patented to protect intellectual property, but on the internet you\'ll find the price of dozens of counterfeits
Low quality).
For every fake Louis Vuitton bag, there is also a fake JimmyJane vibrator.
Leaving aside intellectual property issues, counterfeit toys may lack waterproof performance, may not have a warranty and will be made from cheaper materialsfriendly.
Even as a sex columnist, I\'m still unhappy with phrases like \"Cream Pie\" and \"ass\"gasm\".
F-is also frequently usedword and C-
Words, and even a large number of adjectives on the package make consumers feel a little dirty.
Believe it or not, some people are not interested in swearing, but still want to buy sex toys.
Finally, BDSM, Main/slave dynamics, whips, chains, and handcuffs are the focus that bothers me to buy sex toys.
If these things are your fault, you have the right to go for gold in the world (
If your partner is voluntary).
But for those of us who are not interested in the painful/happy dichotomy and are not able to get rid of the connotation of the bundled violence --
Or suffocate, when there are images of models being bound and stuffed nearby, we are turned off by the behavior of buying sex toys.
There really shouldn\'t be any shame on buying sex toys, because they are very helpful and even crucial to a healthy sex life.
But if you feel a little sick buying them like I do, it\'s not because you don\'t have sex --
Positive opinions or fear what others think of you.
This is because shopping has become more intense through the marketing of these products.