Dear Miss LONELYHEARTS: I have never seen the point of admitting that I gave up a child\'s adoption when I was a teenager.
But I have a big boyfriend now, and all he has is to have children and a big family.
I want a child or two, but my first experience as a pregnant teenager is tough in many ways --
Work hard on my young body and on my pride.
It is difficult for children to give up and forget.
Now that things are getting serious and we love each other, how do I tell my boyfriend?
I know that if we are to get married and have children one day soon, we will not avoid this problem. —
Question mother Brandon dear mother: Are you the one he loves, or are you the wonderful combination of taking care of a big family with him?
Now there is no choice but to sit in a very private place where you are free to talk about your teenage pregnancy and the trauma it brings to you.
Finally, you have to talk about your reluctance to have more than two children with him. or anyone.
If he pushes you away, he doesn\'t love you enough in the first place.
You should know that most people don\'t want to have more than two children right now, especially if they want their partner to work outside.
It\'s really expensive to raise children now.
It\'s a test for him, not for you.
If he says, \"whether we have a child or six, I can\'t believe to love you and want you! \" then great.
Maybe you can enrich the family with pets.
Dear Miss Lang hearts: My husband and I are quite conservative and interested in spreading things in the bedroom.
We have been married for 25 years and curiosity has taken our best place.
We \'ve talked openly about trying these new things, but are concerned that we might be seen in a local sex store.
We would also like to try to avoid buying any items online, as the deliveryman will see them, which may have an obvious return address tag.
Is there a good way to keep this cautious or do we have to disguise as these places? —Well-
As we all know, the sexual store in Winnipeg is sensitive to your questions and is as cautious as possible.
You are unlikely to meet someone you know in the store, especially if you go on a day or night that is not very popular.
As for the sex toys shipped to you from a distance, these companies are clearer than writing their store name on the box, so the deliveryman will certainly not know.
Many people travel to Vegas or other interesting places and go home with sex toys in their luggage.
Be sure to get the battery out before you go home.
The last thing you want to hear is the hum of what you carry with youon baggage.
If the security guard wants to ask you a question about an item, they will never say loudly, \"What is this?
\"They will take you aside and talk to you quietly and privately.
If you\'re really worried, just buy sex toys while you\'re away and leave them there.
Think of it as the cost of a bottle of expensive champagne.
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